b/c i have been w/ this guy for a year and a half and i have known him since i was 12 and well he said that when he saw me he stopped all the bs he did back then he says he really loves me and like i wouldnt know how much he loves me bc it is alot like i was upset that he was going to leave me for like navy and all but only for aircraft i talk to him once in awhile bc he so busy um... he told me today that if he had a chance that he would marry me right now bc he so in love w/ me and cares about me and misses me all the time he worries about and i mean i feel the same way but i never see him only i hear his voice but we have seen each other along a time ago and all but not like now only seen him once and all but that is it he said that everything is going in the right place in his life and if he didnt have me his life wouldnt feel right with out me in it so is that really true love or just not. bc he doesnt wanna get in my pants till were married and all that stuff.
2006-07-04 17:27:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you sit down to eat on the table but instead end up under the table
2006-07-04 17:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by rekha c 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you ask me seriously.. i think he's the perfect guy for u... According to me i don't actually believe in falling in love stuff... i believe you actually walk into a wonderful relationship called love...
Let's say you marry another person and move on in life ... if in case you can assure yourself that you will not miss this chap inspite of being in the company of another... then may be it's just an affection you have for him...
But if you think that you'll miss him a lot and most importantly... if you think he's the only one who actually understands you and takes care of you like no one else... then go ahead and kiss him...
The fact that he isn't looking at your panties but only at your heart and loves everything 'bout you... i seriously think you should reciprocate with your love...
All the best...
2006-07-04 17:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by curiousdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way that I knew that I was in love with my man was when he had his arms wrapped around me, and we were watching a movie, and all I could think about was him. He and I have been together for only 6 months, but it feels like 6 lifetimes. If this is the guy for you, you should feel the hole in your heart when he's not near you, but the joy as well when you talk to him. If he is the one, you'll know it. And he'll be all that you can think about. He'll be in your heart, and you'll be in his.
2006-07-04 17:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think it's going to work out because of all the questioning and doubts you have about the relationship. There's nothing wrong with it but from seeing what you read, I can sense that you feel tied down to this relationship just because he's 'right' and you've known him for so long. If you don't feel happy, break it off.
2006-07-04 17:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Desdemona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then its probably not the right love of your heart in life. You will know when it happens.
And just because you aren't having sex before marriage doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
Many couples get married without having sex before marriage.
2006-07-04 17:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, wait for him please trust is what is missing in this world. do you know i am 44yrs old and i am waiting for a man from india who has given me his heart and soul. he is doing everything he can in his life to come to america to be with me..
he has lost his Phd, his service millitary work of 16yrs and all his pentions, he has lost his houseing and he was put in jail for 6 months becouse of are corispondance.. Now after 9 hearing he is a free man.. he will now get job and make up money to come too me.
we are taking a gamble that all are letters in are words will be enough love to make this relationship work..
So my dear, love him, support him he has done a great service to are planet and are country. Be there for him untill the end I have been waiting for 9 months and i still promised him untill june of 2007 that i will wait for him.
There was a time a month ago that i got tired of waiting and i wrote him not knowing he was put in jail for corisponding with me.. and now i feel guilty.. so stay pure for this man and just write letters on the journal.. LiveJournal.com / go make yourself a geo site or work on your blog.. that is what i am doing.. and when he can get to the internet then he can see all that i have done.. you can send him pictures that is what i am doing to night. i have learned how to go to yahoo. picutres and make books so i am taking all my photos and making books.. Hmmlot of work..
but trust girl trust.. dont let your mind think he is with someone else i did that and well it was me and inthe end.. like i said it ws me.. not him.. so dont girl .... just hold on he is worth all that... right.. mama giggles
2006-07-04 17:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by sillyatheart3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say this guy loves you for you, not for sex. I would stick with this guy, cause most guys all they want u for is sex anyways. And if you really love him and everything you'll know if he is the one for you. Hope what i had to say helped
2006-07-04 17:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by jess_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes two and also being together if he doesn't want you where he is right now then don't you think that is telling you something
2006-07-04 17:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by wheels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not doing either of you two a favour if your only with him to make him happy. you have to want to be with him too cos it makes you happy and cos you feel that way about him too. otherwise your going to feel very unfulfilled
2006-07-04 17:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When something anybody else says bad about him pisses you off then you really know.
2006-07-04 17:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋