There's this guy I really like and he says he likes me too but I'm not sure if he really does or if he's just saying he does so he doesn't hurt my feelings.He asked me to the movies and we planned on it and then he stood me up because he said he forgot because he started talking to someone that is helping him get a job.And I forgave him and we went out today but we only went to a park and sat there for about an hour then he brought me home.Plus I don't think he does because he never calls me.I have to text him.He'll text back but I wish he'd call.I don't know what to think.Help please.
2006-07-04 17:22:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 17 and he's 19.I've known him for almost 5 years but he told me he liked me a few weeks ago and he brought it up after he found out I broke up with my boyfriend.
2006-07-04 17:36:52 · update #1
I still need more comments,please.
2006-07-05 14:51:02 · update #2
Well, when I like a girl, I am thrilled when they call me. However on the movie mishap, those things do happen sometimes. If I were you I would stop calling him for a day or two (no texts either) and see if he calls or texts you; I know I would if I liked you.
P.S. He may text you back instead of call because he might be sensitive about his parents finding out that he likes a girl or something (I don't know how old you or he is); I know my parents get a little weird about it and I am 18.
2006-07-04 17:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Honda R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some guys like to play hard to get if a guy usually likes a female they remember the littlest things and after awhile if the guy likes you he would ask you but what i would do is first hang out with him a Lilttle more and call him now and then if you are able to some guys are waiting for the female to call also you said hes in the process of getting a job that also could be a reason he is kinda procrastinating cause well if the guys don't have a job then the female would always be paying which should not be the way to go but that's all i can say just hang in their a Lilttle longer and see if anything changes for the better that's all you really can do at the moment if the guy truly likes you and thinks it would work out in a relationship he will ask you unless hes the kind of guy that a skirt chaser pardon my saying
2006-07-05 00:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the man game. It has to be played because of the woman game.
He the same as you want to come off as a good person and not to make you think he is there just to get lucky. If he did not like you he would have already tried to get in your jeans.
I don't call women but just enough to make sure they remember me. Being women think a man should make the first move to meet you and he does and gets things all setup. You should make contact with him after. He should not bother you becaue if he did you would think he is a baby or is going to be a controller and you will never have any time for your self with out explaining.
Most guys hate to talk on the phone.. I hate it as bad as I hate to go to walmart shopping with women.
I think he likes you because he is taking it slow. And you said he don't have a job so he can't ask you to go do anything because don't have any money. I am the same way. I will set home first before I take a woman out on a boring time to ride around town adn set in the park. So it may be up to you to get things going.
That is a man thing and is hard to change.
2006-07-05 00:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, it's like this. You'll know with out a doubt in the world if they (guys) like you. You won't have to guess. If your guessing then they don't really like you. I know it's sad but true. A guy will move a mountain to let a girl know he likes her...really likes her. Your guy sounds like he doesn't really like you like "that" but he just doesn't want to hurt you feelings. To see if I'm right, stop calling/texting him. Stop completely. See if HE calls/text you. More than once. You really need to read a little book called " He's Just Not That into You". Just look up the title ( forgot the author) I'm not telling you to read this book to be mean. It's a neat little "guide" from a man/men to women to help us figure them out. I loved it and rec. it to every girl/woman i think could use it's helpful advice. Trust me and move on from this guy. You're too fabulous to waste your beautiful time! Good luck!
2006-07-05 00:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if his mouth is salivating while he stares at your **** then he probably does like you. And by the way he may not seem interested but remember most guys dont start getting raging hormones until their about 15. So he may not be horny or like you in a sexual manner but more as a friend thing. Most guys will date at younger ages just so they dont feel lonely
2006-07-05 00:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by screameagle369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the fact that he never calls is a sign that he may not like you. it's his lost.
2006-07-05 00:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by brownsuga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋