I was shopping for a chain and cross at the local mall. The girl who showed me the cross and chain was HOT. I didn't buy the chain then, but introduced myself, and said I would be back to purchase. A week went buy, and I went to the mall for something lse, and just stopped by, to really say hi, and to see if the chain was still available. The girl seemed a bit freaked out, like maybe I was stalking or something. Should I go back and try to ask her out? Should I wait until I but the chain, and THEN ask her out? Or should I just stay away until I am ready to by, and not ask her out at all? You see I am not all that good looking, so my low opinion of myself makes me think she isn't interested, and that she only wants to sell me the cross and chain and make some money. Thanks fo any help..
2006-07-04 17:04:36 · 8 answers · asked by STBJBL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you TRULY believe about the situation? What does your gut tell you?
I'm not there and I don't SEE how she acts so I can't say...I will say this though, if YOU don't believe you deserve her, why would she? I say Go for it...ask her out..and DON'T buy the chain just because you said you would...that is NOT how you are gonna impress her. The truth is, if she turns you down, what are the odds of seeing her again, unless you go in her work to buy the chain? Slim to none probably. IYou have nothing to lose. f you feel a connection, go for it. If you are too intimidated, she'll say no because you act like she is better than you. Good luck!
2006-07-04 17:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you've made the first approach already, by just introducing yourself and you followed up by just dropping in to say hello. The next time perhaps ask her if she'd like to join you for coffee or something. Be polite but don't force the issue. If she refuses you, assume that perhaps another time would be best and ask her.
We all unconsciously think of ourselves as not being " good enough " but that is being negative about our true worth. That's what will keep us from being or doing all that we can be or achieve in life. Life becomes more meaningful and enjoyable when we show our true colours.
Just be yourself and things will adjust accordingly with whatever you try to do.
If you sincerely like this girl and you want to get to know her, ask her to join you for coffee, the least she can do is slap you in the face... just kidding!!! Another thing you will never know what her reaction will be if you don't try, will you?
2006-07-05 00:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok with this kind of situation you may have kind of freaked her out a bit with just stopping by to say hi. Chances are she didn't remember you or maybe she thought you were trying to hard or maybe she just wasn't interested. Whatever the case may be I say you should at least give it one more shot. But this time when you talk to her have someting more to say more than hi. Let her know that you're interested and ask if maybe she wanted to hang out sometime and offer her your number. I mean what's the worst that could happen? Just take a chance.
2006-07-05 00:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should 1st try just talkin 2 her 4 a lil bit. if u ask her out rite away without even like knowing her then id b a bit freaked out. talk 2 her 4 a lil bit, c wen shes off and then just ask if she wants 2 go get a coffee or somethin(as friends). get 2 no her b4 u make a move.
2006-07-05 00:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's selling chains and crosses, I think she's used to much weirder guys than you are. Offer to buy her a drink, like a smoothie or something, and see how well she reacts.
2006-07-05 00:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE SOME BALLS >>>
DUDE...just go there ...pretend u don't care that much ...be charming with a big smile in ur face and look confidant ...say something nice like ...i would only buy this chain if u go out with me ...make it like a jock and see how will she react ...be normal...DO SOMETHING...
good luck
2006-07-05 00:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by fotogramania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely ask her out! Go for it! If it works in the end you might can get a discount anyway! LOL! Good luck.
2006-07-05 00:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by anje_s2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that might be true but you'll never know unless you try. the worse she could do is say no. she can't be rude cause she's at work. it's foolproof; just go for it.
2006-07-05 00:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by jigalow_joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋