I was wondering what guys look for in a girl. I have no experience with guys. I am often told how beautiful I am and how cool I am, but I still have no boyfriend. I wonder why no one likes me.
2006-07-04 17:03:44 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Victoria♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Victoria,
You have good friends from the compliments you mentioned and it should be taken into consideration that you will get a boyfriend eventually, everyone does. I can't tell you what is wrong with you, but the answer is most likely nothing. Have some confidence, it will happen. Guys look for a girl who makes them smile, for numerous reasons. A smile says a 1,000 words. So just keep smiling, it will happen.
2006-07-04 17:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Josh S 3 · 20⤊ 3⤋
Nothing is wrong with You, You were made to be who You are. I am not a guy, but I know that some times guys are just too shy to ask out a pretty girl. And keep in mind, You might just want to turn the really bold ones down. It will come. Just try talking a little more to guys, take it slow, You don't want to give them the wrong message. Maybe when You were told that You are beautiful, or really cool, Someone was trying to give You a message then, but Your not picking up on it. And if You are Young, take it REALLY slow. Just know that You are fine, and remember the old saying "Good things come to those who wait".
Best Wishes and God Bless
2006-07-05 00:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Muffin Ann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing harder for a guy to do than approach a very beautiful girl. He ants so much for her to like him that he fears the rejection.
I think most very good looking girls have the problem to some extent until they Begin to have the confidence to show the guys it is okay to say hi to you.
If your shy, and I know all about that, you give a standoff appearance which makes it even harder to approach you.
There is nothing at all wrong with you. You just need to be around some guys that are a little more confident in themselves. They will most defiantly talk to you.
The older you get the less of a problem this will be for you.
There is nothing that a guy needs more from you than a smile.
It works wonders.
Try it and see.
2006-07-05 00:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been told many times by many guys that the most unattractive thing in the world is a girl that has no confidence. so i guess what i am saying is that if you think you're beautiful then other people will think you're beautiful. If you pic all the things good about yourself and hold them all in high regards then every one else will realize how wonderful you are too.
2006-07-05 00:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Victoria, there is nothing wrong with you. It's normal for you to be a bit insecure at this time in your life. Guess what boys are insecure right now too. I'm sure there a loads of guys going. "good gawd almighty" when they look at you. But the trick is for you to look past physical looks, don't settle on the books cover. The boys your age are shallow by nature, some will grow out of it. Be careful and be safe. Good luck.
2006-07-05 00:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by lifeisgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Victoria there is nothing wrong with you. You may be a little shy or guys may be afraid of being rejected if they asked you out because you are beautiful. Someone will come along for you and it may even be Mr. Right! You just never can tell!
2006-07-05 00:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same issue...but I realised I would not even want to be close to a lot of the guys I know cos I'm a person with high self esteem and high expectations and most guys probably get scared with that...and I don't even want a guy who's not able to stand up to me. Maybe it's the same with u? Trust me, people like u, they are just not going to be able to cope with a relationship with a strong person like u..!
2006-07-05 00:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Nisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys may be feeling insecure because you are very beautiful and they are afraid to approach. You should be friendly with them and make them feel comfortable.Then they might have the courage to come up to you and ask you out.
2006-07-05 00:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by daffodil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. You do sound a little desperate though, which guys hate. Men desire independent women who are confident in themselves. Don't ever think there's anything wrong with you because you'll lose your appeal. Try online dating. I mean, it couldn't hurt. You're asking for advice online.
2006-07-05 00:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by Scorpio11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are intimidated by really beautiful women who respect themselves. there's nothing wrong with you making the first move if you like someone.
2006-07-05 00:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by jigalow_joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋