2006-07-04 16:38:02 · 20 answers · asked by Sheetal G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
he doesn't really love you. he may just want you as a sex partner. dump him, unless you are willing to be used to satisfy his lust for you. good luck. cheers!
2006-07-04 19:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im very sorry. Ive under no circumstances truly understood the divide between religions. you're trying to develop right into a Jehovah's Witness. Why can he not substitute on your faith? Is your courting a one way highway? perhaps he doesnt understand how significant your beliefs are to you. the in straightforward words ingredient i can say is to describe to him how a lot exhilaration and love you get out of the vacation trips you've fun. How spectacular it feels to charm to close that folk care about the day you've been born. you're both Christian, Im particular he's widespread with what a present the day of delivery is. previously you're making any existence replacing plans, imagine about who you're and who you pick to be. Then tell him about your soul seek for. If he cant or wont understand, perhaps its not meant to be. I dont imagine you could provide up your faith for anothers until eventually its some thing you sense is ideal to the very depths of your soul. You, even if, do not. so that you actually pick to communicate with him.
2016-11-05 21:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him think about it for a while longer, you don't say how long you have been together. Don't nag him into it or he may not go through with it. You can't force someone to marry you. If he is still not keen in a while, ask him why not and if there is anything that would change his mind. If he still says he will not marry you then you have to decide how important it is to you, can you live with him for the rest of your life and be happy not getting married? If you could not live with it then you need to end the relationship and find someone who will commit.
2006-07-04 22:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of places to go with that. It depends on so many factors. But, if you've been together a while.......years...let's say, I'd purchase the book "He's just not that into you" and read it with an open mind and heart. Still, love comes in so many forms. You can love someone....and not want to marry them. If that's what your looking for.....a marriage mate, maybe it's time to shop elsewhere. What are his/her reasons? Don't close your mind and heart to honest answers. Sometimes these hurt but, atleast you know where you need to go from there on out.
2006-07-04 16:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by ktltel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really depends on your age(s). If you guys are in your early-mid twenties, don't sweat it; if you guys are older, it should come down to a pretty firm feeling, in other words, sh!t or get off the pot.
By the time you're in your late 30's you should know what you want in life and whether or not a person can give it to you. However, pressure never solves anything.
But set a firm and definite deadline (either privately or openly with him) and if he doesn't stick to it, carry through with getting on with your life without him in it.
Sorry to say, but some guys just aren't the marrying sort.
2006-07-04 17:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your boyfriend claims he loves you does not mean that he's ready to get married. If you really love him, you'll stick it out with him....and eventually he'll come around. Just wait till the time is right! If he's not the marrying type, in time you'll know that! Then....if marriage is so important to you...you'll have to leave him and move on.
2006-07-04 16:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really depends on how long you have been dating. Is he saying he will never get married or he will never marry you? If he is saying he will never get married if he is under 27, he will most likely change his mind. If he is over 30 then I would think he may be serious. If he is saying he will never marry you, and you want to get married some day move on.
2006-07-11 10:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by jodi M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not ready to make such an important committment.There are a lot of issues to consider; you must realize that men do not see the "marriage picture" the same as women do.
2006-07-04 16:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you, and wants to be with you, but isn't ready for marriage. Just be happy together, and eventually, the time will come when he will be ready.
Good luck!
2006-07-04 16:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the bookstore and read the book "he's just not that into you." As seen on the Oprah show.
2006-07-05 07:02:22 · answer #10 · answered by sunlovin76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is just a piece of paper, if someone likes you just go with it. It's not that big of a deal.
2006-07-04 16:44:33 · answer #11 · answered by mrkittypong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋