of women that have 2-3 kids all by different men by the time they're 21?
2006-07-04 16:16:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I'm 20 with 2 kids. They're 1 and 2. I see girls I graduated with that have 2 or 3 kids and we'll get to talkin and things. A lot of them start telling me about their children's fathers. Mu kids have the same dad and we're planning on a third in about 2 years and we do support them ourselves. I just saw a girl today that's 1 month older than me. She already has 2 kids that have different fathers, and she's pregnant!!! I'd be embarressed about it and not be having sex anymore. I understand cases of rape and things like that because I know they happed.
2006-07-04 16:28:26 · update #1
She learned promiscuity early in her age. Not too late for her to straighten her life. Focus on more positive things rather than sex. Set a goal and work on it every day. She might want to continue her studies or find a decent job. She should forget about men at this time and concentrate on how she will raise her children. She should not let her children undergo the same experiences she's gone through.
2006-07-04 16:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Seeker 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think they should be havein those kids in the first place. IF they aren't married , no matter what th eage, they shouldn't be haveing sex. Even if they don't believe in God, surely theri religon has something said about marriage & babies. SO I don't agree with it at all, the kids might get confused, my little consouins are alitle cus there is 7 of them & like 3 or 4 different Dad's. They wanna know if they are all really brother & sisters and stuff like that. My aunt has bad taste in men. Like 2 of them are in jail & one was a alcoholic. But bottom line is no I don't like that. Glad you have kids & I Cant wait to get married &have some!! GOod Luck if you have another bundle fo joy!! :)
2006-07-05 02:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by Carly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the woman needs a therapist. Not that it is wrong, she needs to find who she is as a person and love herself enough to not make all these babies with different men for all the wrong reasons. Babies pull relationships apart and then children suffer. If she is a good mom, then God Bless her but to be a better mom, she should take care of what is on her plate now and make the conscious decision not to have anymore children until later in life. She is still so young and learning the hard way.
2006-07-04 23:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by chihuahuas2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worked at a Dept of Human Services and let me tell you not all cases are as they seem. Some women were tricked into it and some just want kids for systems cash and food stamps. Then again some are just fertile as a fish. Its unfortunate too because the money it takes to support these kids with a nice life are slim. They will have to fight everyday to survive.
2006-07-04 23:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistakes happen, but you hear of woman having 3 0r 4 kids by different men. I feel real sorry for the kids and the women need to start having a bit of pride in themselves and a bit more respect for their bodies.............Especially when a lot of them don't even know who the fathers are...........
2006-07-04 23:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by coloradocrackerjack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that she is feeling a bit empty and grasping at whateer she can get her hands on. I think if she can find comfort in herself, develop a sence of security and self reliance, she may not be looking outside herself for approval. It is not the fact that she has children- its the fact that she is having some difficulty in setting boudaries around her romantic relationships, not using reliable methods to avoid pregnancy, and likely does not have very good family relationships.
Sorry if this comes acrss harshly! I hope she can discover herself and love herself enough so this cycle can be broken.
I hope she finds joy in her children, and, hopefully she is a consious parent to them!
2006-07-04 23:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Intuit Birth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are women ssearching for love or something. i have 2 by 2 different men. the first was due to rape and she died. the second is my hubbys. most women with children with mutliple fathers it is because the are plain and simply whores. they sleep with everyone. not all of them though
2006-07-04 23:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHORE! Well, that's just my opinion. These women need to get their **** together... and they need to get their tubes tied. For that matter... what SANE guy would even consider being with a woman who already had 3 children by different men?
2006-07-04 23:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by TheLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rhymes with "Birdy Fussy" ... or she is very limber. If that is the case .. then I don't blame her for wanting to be a real young mother living on public resources cause she didn't know when to say when.
Time to be pro-active in what enters and exits your body!
2006-07-04 23:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its an unfortunate case for the children
2006-07-04 23:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋