My bf and I were sitting on my couch and I was sitting on his lap and all of a sudden he says I want to do anal with you.I said go through the front cause theres no way Im stickin' that thing in my but it feels like your pooping in your butt.
2006-07-04 16:15:16 · 19 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's wrong - not nearly everyone is doing anal! He needs to respect that. Or better yet, see if he's interested in you having your way with him with a dildo or cucumber. :) I think it's a little gross myself, not to mention it can be bad for the muscles in the anus if you don't do it right. It's really designed for output, not input!
2006-07-04 16:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It means that he is insensitive to your feelings, and a bit immature from the sound of it. Now there is nothing wrong with any position that two consenting adults agree upon. The reason I say he lacks maturity is that it's only making love if both partners are in agreement. When it takes coaxing to try something new, then someones feelings are not being considered, at this point there is another term for the act because there is obviously lack of respect, or a breakdown in communication. Sit down with him and explain how you feel with him. It may open a new dimension to your relationship. Good luck.
2006-07-04 23:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by lifeisgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, most of the younger woman (under 30) are at least trying it. I was shocked a couple of years ago when I was working out at my college gym and got into a conversation with two other guys who would not do anal talking about how many woman out there are now doing anal.
2006-07-04 23:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to pressure you into doing it. Giving you a guilt trip.. making you think that you are not doing what all the other people are doing. I have no clue if everyone is doing it that way or not. Frankly I dont care if each and every person on this earth is doing it or not.. I just know that I hate pain and I will not do something the area that was designed for "exit only".
2006-07-04 23:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's lying and just trying to have his way with u,
If everyone is doing how does he know is he with everyone? And if thats the case then he should let u stick a dildo in his butt. If he says no to that then ask him why if he says it hurts anything esle then use the answer onhim y ur not gonna let him do u.
LOOK GIRL DON'T DO ANYTHING U DON'T WANT TO DO AND DON'T DO IT JUST TO PLEASSE UR MAN BECAUSE IF HE CARED HE WOULDN'T ASK U TO DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT!
2006-07-04 23:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he's lying to you, in hopes that he can get you to agree. Not everyone is doing it, most women I've known would never even consider it.
Tell him if he keeps things out of yours, you'll keep things out of his....and look at the baseball bat leaning in the corner when you say it.
Oh, I guess it could mean that he's hanging out with some gay men...they're all doing it.
2006-07-04 23:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to lubricate the opening. Get an enema to clean it up. Then put some anal gel in and there u go. No problems
2006-07-04 23:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by jhvesterjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means he is trying to use the whole peer pressure, (all the cool peeps are doing it) routine. there is many other ways to ask u or let u know he wants to do that. him telling u that way means that he just wants to go with the flow, ask him to let use a strap on him c what he says, tell him its the rage in Europe, c if he goes with the flow on that one. and what does " i wanna do anal with you" has he done it with other people or what? just taught id ask.
2006-07-04 23:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by klone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to go in your exit only entrance. Its natural fo rguys to want to go whereever they shouldn't. The idea that it's taboo is alluring. Plus he can't get you knocked up in da butt.
2006-07-04 23:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by silatye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is tring to guilt trip you into doing it .... tell him if he wants to do someone in the *** to go to a GAY bar and he can take his choice
2006-07-04 23:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jack M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋