Ok this is the story, see there is this guy i really like and he talks about his ex who i hate and she hate's me and now he just got back with her for the 3rd time or 4th and i have liked this guy for like months and he knows that. I'm so tired of hearing the same stuff about her about her bestfriend. I wish i could just say to him that you need to just stop talking about them i'm not the person you need to talk 2 but if i say that he might get mad. Damn it i wish i never met him cuz i never knew i would like him this much. I just need to not be his friend anymore cuz i know i will never be with him anyway can you give me advice on how to forget him?
2006-07-04 16:04:59 · 23 answers · asked by cutiepie4u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for the advice it really helped!!!:)
2006-07-04 16:16:37 · update #1
Focus on yourself, do things you want to do. Be happy. You will soon forget whathisname
2006-07-04 16:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok ...tough one. Well, first of all, ignore him for a bit! I know it sounds mean but this will hopefully give him the hint, and if he still has feelings for you, then trust me, he will come running back to you. Like they say, if you love something, let it go, and if it comes back its yours, that's how you know it's for sure! In the mean time, just think about all of the things you hate about him, like how annoying he is when he talks about girls. I know it won't be easy to 4get about him, because the guy I have liked for ever has had a gf for ~ 2 years now and I'm still not over him! So don't feel bad, it's normal...good luck!!!
2006-07-04 16:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop with the SHakespeare drama. He is your friend. If you can't be happy for him and this girl well then I am sorry but you are not worth his time. Just understand that he wants to be with her, not you. Be supportive and shut up because he isn't going to like you if you start hating his girlfriend. Just be supportive. His girlfriend might "hate" you cause you are being around way too much in a non-friendly way around her bf. WHO KNOWS IF HE EVER BREAKS UP WITH her and realized you were there for him, you might come into the picture but stop hating it ain't going to get you anything!
2006-07-04 16:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!! Before you put this guy in the recycling bin, consider this, this guy maybe shy, and is using this girl to keep you from knowing he likes you to. I know it's a little junior high, but guys still do these things. And if not, don't reject him completely out of spite, because you don't want to be that kind of person, instead seek a knew realationship, where the crush is mutual.
2006-07-04 16:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy or girl that is with someone new should not talk about their exes.Big mistake!!! I think you should tell him what you want to and get it out or just forget him and move on in your life.
2006-07-04 16:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime you think about him, self-inflict some pain. This can be something as simple as pinching yourself. Eventually your mammilian mind with associate pain with the thought of this person and perhaps if you get to the advanced stages, you will even begin to feel ill around this person.
2006-07-04 16:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ashurbanipal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you can like a guy like. He is not the problem; you are. He constantly offends you, and you are not even able to ask him to stop. Hold... you're saying he is important, but you're not.
The reason that he does not pay attention to you is because you don't pay attention to yourself. A man who keeps on whining about his ex does not deserve you. Think of it and go on with your life...
2006-07-04 16:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by newchenel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date other people.
2006-07-04 16:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to forget someone u like.but if it hurts u and my advice is to focus some important thing in ur life and find new friends.it take a while but it works dont talk to them and get busy...sometimes we realize that we like the person when thier gone in our life...
hope it helps....
2006-07-04 16:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you start to praise her ex then and only then he himself will stop talking about his ex.You hate his ex that is why indirectly he wants to hurt your ego or he want to show you down.Try the trick for few days you will find the difference.
2006-07-04 16:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy,cutie, and focus your attention on him.....Obviously, the other one is a glutton for punishment and an idiot for returning several times to a relationship that was doomed from the start.....It'll be hard for awhile, but slowly wean yourself away from him....Take care.......
2006-07-04 16:07:18 · answer #11 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋