I've been dating some1 for the last almost 3 months, everything seemed to be going great. then all of a sudden we had sex, it wasn't all that, but i am willing to give it a try since he is such a great catch, but he isn't calling me or responding to my text messages. Even after the fact that i told him that even though i really wanted to sleep with him, i was really afraid of loosing what we had, he re asured me that nothing was going to change, but 2 weeks later, i'm heartbroken. what to do? is he just not into me? or is he just embarrased that he could not function properly? HELP
2006-07-04 15:37:00 · 6 answers · asked by its_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly I do not know and wont assume I do. I know if I had problems I would feel pretty bad and embarrased that I was not the man I thought I would have been.
As humans we always seem to assume the worse and sometimes that is the case but you know sometimes it isn't and when we do find out that we were wrong we sure do feel pretty bad about it.
If I were you and going through this what I would do is call him or text him and say when are we going to try again because I think we should not give up so quickly. and maybe if you like we can just take things a bit slower because you really mean so very much to me.
2006-07-04 15:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't contacted you in two weeks, I would stop trying to contact him. At this point, the more you contact him, the more he is going to think that you're overly agressive. As much as people don't want to admit it, sex DOES change everything. If he is going to wake up and realize what a great catch -you- are, he has to do it on his own. Calling him and texting him will just make him feel "trapped" no matter how much he isn't.
2006-07-04 22:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted and now he's probably chasing about 3 other girls lookin to do the same thing.... you was PLAYED honey! Move on, consider it a learning experience and forget the idiot. You're too good for him
2006-07-04 22:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by kandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it wasnt 'all that' for you....it probably wasn't 'all that' for him. There is more to the story. Obviously sex killed this relationship....
Think about that the next time you start dating someone. Three months is not very long to get to know someone.
2006-07-04 22:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh I'm sorry to hear that. But i think that he just used you. But i can be wrong and let's hope that I'm
2006-07-04 22:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by Detective Emil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like one of those 'players'
2006-07-04 22:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋