i am very embarrased asking this question. but since this is an open dialogue center i am asking this. when is the right time for sex. is premarital sex is bad/a sin. by e way i'm 16, which is i fink far too young
2006-07-04 15:36:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i want yur general opinion. when do yu guyz wannna do it??
2006-07-04 15:42:38 · update #1
i'm happi to get these answers from yu sensible ppl. there shud be more ppl like yu around. sex shud be practised at the right time. i got tht
2006-07-04 15:46:32 · update #2
Dont have sex till u know in your heart and mind that u are ready. Way to many people rush into it now days or are pressured into it. There are so many diseases and there is the pregnancy factor seeing as that there is no birth control that is a 100 percent effective. Wait till u know that u are with the one that u wanna share it with and wait till u are ready to take on any of the concequenses that can come with sex. Make sure that u can be sure that this is what u want and dont let no one try and talk u into it because it dont make u cool and it can complicate relationships and it can be real hard to deal with if u do it before u are ready.
2006-07-04 15:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In God's eyes it is a sin and I only can tell you the right thing to do that will have you feeling good about yourself and your partner.If you can wait,its best to get married first,because premarital sex is good but you set yourself open for anything to happen or catch any kind of diseases.Just pray for God to give you wisdom and strength and He will guide you thru it all,and you'll feel real good because Godly wisdom is the BEST.And if you do fall short and have premarital sex then ask God for forgiveness and try not to fall into temptation again.It's not easy though with the things that ladies are wearing today and how sexy and tempting they look.You have to do what you think is right.
2006-07-04 15:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want. Some people wait some don't. Doesn't really matter either way. I will say that the first time is great but that you should find someone who is experienced or your first time. Picking the right partner(s) makes all the difference.
2006-07-04 15:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by neoliminal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, premarital sex being bad/a sin would depend on your religion. I think it's bad, but that's just my opinion in thousands of other people's.
2006-07-04 15:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Hummingbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For guys it is okay at whatever age they feel ready because they have nothing to loose.(if they use protection) The girl however is the one who should worry since she is the one who can get the belly. Personally I think it is better till marriage because it means a lot more.
2006-07-04 15:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by shychicana73093 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly, yes 16 is too young. i mean you seem smart enough to understand this. my honest opinion is wait til you feel in your heart that the time is right. dont let your hormones get in the way of what your heart and mind are telling you.
2006-07-04 15:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I believe in sex after marriage. It means more and feels better.
That's my opinion anyway
2006-07-04 15:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the Bible...
it IS a Sin, and yeah, 16 is too young
2006-07-04 15:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone around me rushes to have it, I really hate it but sometimes you just get caught up in it. I think when your in love.
2006-07-04 15:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by Gaga <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to wait boy ur too young to think about it grow up baby. ur time will come dont hurry for anythin
2006-07-04 15:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by hauntingskull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋