women think i am a nice guy but do not want to go out with me, why?

Answer 1

I am a nice guy too. Try striking up a conversation and really listen to what she is saying. This gives you the launch for more conversation until she begins to see what an interesting and considerate bloke you are. Ask her, "Have you eaten? Would you join me for a bite?" Or, " I have been dying to see this movie. Would you like to see it with me?"
By all means, be yourself, but yourself with a bit of polish and shine.
Good luck!

Answer 2

I'm going to give it to you straight. A good male friend for a woman is a wonderful thing. He is a sounding board for both decisions on other men as well as gives her a different view on other topics. A good male friend can let her know if her girlfriends are steering her true or are just as blindsided. He can be a guiding light in dark times.

Unfortunately it is due to this seat of high honor that a woman would be so steadfast in her refusal of a man leaving it. She has fashioned the man into a friend role and simply won't let go. A man has, in most situations, a very small window to make his intentions known before being placed in the "friends" column.

Now don't get me wrong - you don't want to go around shouting from every treetop "Hey, do you wanna be my gal?" but within the first two or three meetings with a young lass, you should make sure that she knows of your intentions. Putting your cards on the table will let her know what you want, and then she'll reply in kind.

My best to you - as a lifelong friend of many women, I know what want is like - but as a man who has been dating the same wonderful woman for three years, I also know what a boon it can be when it does all work out.

Answer 3

Are you shy??? Have you tried asking any women out?? Maybe try a different type of woman. There are many different kinds of women out there maybe you are just looking to the wrong group of women. And most women do not date the nice guys hence the saying nice guys finish last. Maybe try looking at yourself and see the kind of signals that u are giving off to women. Are you over bearing when u are out on a date or to affectionate not all women like that we tend to like our bubble time also. So first off evaluate yourself and see what it is that can be changed and then evaluate the women that u try and date and look for a different kind of women cause if the women that u are after will not date you then they are probably not worthy of what u have to offer.

Answer 4

I do not know, I often have the same problem. Women think I am a great guy, but am like a "brother" or "confidant" to them while they go out with jerks.

Often women depending on their age, aren't into settling for the nice guy yet, they still want to be out there and date the wild and party guy. They want to be seen with the "bad boy". Only after their "wild times" and being used and dumped by all the pretty boys and bad boys do they either go for the nice guy or proclaim that all men are dogs and give up men totally.

Fortunately, there are women who do not ascribe to this manner of thinking and are in search of the nice guy. They are hard to find but are out there. good luck on your search.

Answer 5

Expressions that are true:
Nice guys always finish last and opposites attract. Perhaps your trying to hard, or maybe your attracted to those girls that use the nice guys for what they can get, and this is a gentle let down, so just in case they ever need something again , they didn't burn that bridge, so... they can use you up some more later down the road, and turn that nice guy into a real asshole. Theres someone for everyone- Patients.

Answer 6

More than likely, you are too nice. Unfortunately most of us women like the guys that appear rough on the outside but are big teddy bears on the inside. Be more confident and outgoing. Maybe you are too quiet. That kind of scares girls off. But don't change who you are.... no one wants to be with someone who is fake. You will find someone. Good Luck!

Answer 7

Because most women are too stupid to realize a good thing in front of them. They want someone that will beat them senseless instead of someone that will treat them like a queen.

Answer 8

Because you aren't agressive and assertive enough. Have confidence and let a woman you like know right away that you're interested in her beyond a friendship.

Answer 9

Maybe because ur too nice and revealing,,try to be cool,,,no one wants another little brother,

Answer 10

you my be nice but try to look for a girl you wouldn't usually think of liking.