I've asked women out and they have gone out with me, etc. . I think it would be neat to try to get a woman to ask ME out.
To all the adventurous women out there: What would inspire you to ask a GUY out?
2006-07-04 14:55:30 · 13 answers · asked by god1oak 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lot of drinks
2006-07-04 14:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've come sooo close to asking guys out cos I couldn't sense that they weren't going to and my instincts were right, good thing i didn't.
Initially when I was contemplating it, I did some research to calculate the risk of rejection. That's when i discovered they already had a girlfriend or wasn't interested.
To get asked out by a chick, tell her straight out-i like u. Then she knows for sure ur not gonna say no. Guys just aren't good with flirting. E.g. there's no hair twirling or over excessive laughing
My experience has scarred me for life-I'll never consider asking a guy out.
2006-07-04 22:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Nattas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, I don't ask a man out. There are bold moves, and then there are BOLD MOVES. I would rather make a subtle move and see if the guy has interest in me and can be the man to make the initiative to ask me out.
I think most women want a man who does not play games and has the self esteem and confidence to lead the dating process.
2006-07-04 22:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Wonderfulhaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think i personally would never ask a guy out...for traditional reasons. but anyway i know that there are some woman who would, and i think that the way you act around that girl and when not around her will inspire her or intrest her. also be kind, honest u know those old things guys use to be...j/k LOL
2006-07-04 22:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by grace_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell u the truth i wouldt ask a guy out no matter what and none of the gurls ik wont either mayb 4 other gurls it would b how nice and fine u r
2006-07-04 22:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I think it would have to be someone I really liked to even become that bold. I think if he sent me the right signs that he wanted me to confront him. Like he was always like showing up places where I was, but when I would see him there, he would act like he was just bored and stopped by. Or like if he was always throwing hints about places he would like to hang out if he had someone who wanted to go with him. Like he is always trying to sit next to me or close enough to me that I notice him watching me. Or that he openly flirts with me, encouraging me to flirt back. I would definitely want to be around him, and he would know that he has me where he wants me. The longer he held out without asking me out, would make be bold enough to just ask him. It would frustrate me to know that he liked me, but wasn't trying to approach me. That's probably the only way though.
2006-07-04 22:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compliments! really, men have forgot the power of a compliment!
eye contact, and shy staring is also a good way for a girl to get the signal- no one wants to be rejected, so make sure she knows your into her.
good luck playa!
2006-07-04 22:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with marena. If i see that a guy is interested in me, i'll go for it. but i'll have to be very very very sure that the likes me or i won't risk it
2006-07-04 22:34:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowing that he likes me but hes not asking me out
2006-07-04 21:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm nothing cause a guy is supost to ask tha grl out.... not tha other way around
2006-07-04 22:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i really liked him i would ask him out. in less he hangs out with a lot of girls then i would think he's taken.
2006-07-04 21:59:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋