My boyfriend and I moved in together about a year ago. we used to go out and do everything from driving to the beach to walking to get ice cream at the corner store. but now, i caint get him to do anything. hes glued to the couch! if it doesnt involve beer and x-box hes not interested and doesnt really care that i am bored and need to get out of our house.
any suggestions?
2006-07-04 14:39:44 · 11 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out without him.
It might motivate him to get off his a$$ if he sees you are having fun without him.
2006-07-04 14:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Amie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tragic. It's cos you've moved in together he thinks that living together constitutes 'going out' without leaving the house.
He's gonna start putting on weight and turn into a slob.
Ur gonna have to play mean to keep him keen.
Why don't uuuuuu keep urself busy by going out with other friends and by urself. Take up a hobby, see family, join a club or something. If you become more independant and having more fun without him, he's gonna think "****, she doesn't need me anymore, what if she meets someone else? Better do sumthin"
U gotta make him want u more not the reverse. Go home late one day, see if he worries- if he asks say u were out doing stuff.
The strategy won't work overnight, u have to commit to this. If it does work, u may not even have time for a boyfriend!
2006-07-04 21:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by Nattas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something you both like in common and do it....
Comedy Clubs, Movies, Sporting Events, Go Carts, Putt Putt, etc....
Plan an evening out for Dinner before hand, with drinks and desert too. Remember to dress up extra hot, in all the little things he happens to like. Then just buy the tickets and make a night of it.
If you go through all that, then buy the tickets and he STILL wont go out with you after that, then you may have another problem all together....
2006-07-04 21:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Pez_Pirate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duct tape and WD 40. If it moves and you don't want it to , use the duct tape. If you want it to move and it doesn't, use WD 40!
Seriously, you can't make him go out, he already has you now. Call some of your girlfriends and leave him at home!
2006-07-04 21:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Therealmsred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried going out with your friends and not inviting your boyfriend? Maybe if you don't invite him he will one get suspicious and want to go out or two feel like you r leaving him out of the picture and will want to come out with you. good luck
2006-07-04 21:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mary W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... He needs to get out of the house... He hasn't grown up yet... He's still playing games...
2006-07-04 21:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a deal about going out and staying at home, maybe you should learn to play xbox too
2006-07-04 21:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by RENE H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start going out without him , either he'll get the message or you'll find someone that dose care about you
2006-07-04 21:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. That's not a boyfriend. That's a room mate.
2006-07-04 21:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can he go out with you if he is already your boyfriend genius?
2006-07-04 21:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Misspretty♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋