Okay...sooooo here is the senario. A guy and a girl been talking and (supposedly) exclusive for four months now. I know for a fact that the girl has been exclusive with the guy, but it's still up in the air about the guy. Well, the guy tells her that he likes her a lot and that she is the only one, but EVERYBODY knows he has groupies (he claim he ain't ******* them though). I mean, the ***** is in a car club. He never spends time with the girl and when he does it's just enough time to have sex or if he needs her to do something for or with him.
Now.....this girl goes to the end of the Earth and back for him, literally given him her last and dude is very unappreciative. Although he does give and do for her when he can, he doesn't make it a priority or he doesn't make a move quick enough on 'relationship status'.
They have titles only to each other.....he calls her wifey (even in front of his ******) and she says he is her man (they do claim each other and show affection towards each other all the time). The thing is that it seems as if he doesn't want to spend time with her. Granted, he does take her out and asks her to go places with him, but those days are few and far between. Basically, it's always '****** Nite' which is damn near everyday with his car club.
I say that becuz she does so much for this dude, he could, no, he SHOULD show some type of appreciation. Dude don't have to jump up and go out every single time his club call and say 'Let's Ride'. I'm pretty sure many of the other members don't show up everytime.....I know, I got brothers who ride and I belong to a club myself.
Now, in the professional opinion of Myspace, what do you think is going on?? Keep it or leave it?? Let me know, so I can tell her to cut the ****** tires
2006-07-04 14:33:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
having names for each other doesn't always mean something, as much as you say he's gone and unappreciative of her and what she does for him I'd say she should leave him. When I'm in love with a girl I'll got to the ends of the earth for her, doesn't matter where I am or who I'm with, she is number one and everyone else comes after her.
2006-07-04 14:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, I can see where you are coming from but don't tell her to cut his tires. I think that he is getting alot of attention, and like any other guy, most of them like heavy attention and being admired by females. He probably doesn't want to cheat on his girlfriend but I am pretty for sure that he has received and taken other females numbers. I think that he cares about your friend, it's just that he is not really ready to be just her man. He wants her to be his main lady, but he still wants to have fun on the side, meaning the girls don't really mean much to him, but it's exciting to go after them and get them. I don't think it's right if that's what he is doing, but if I were you I would be careful about trying to be that helpful friend. We all have been in that situation where we don't like seeing our friends get dissed, but then on the other hand when we try to tell them they just get mad at us, the wrong person. I think that they are mostly in denial and want to use us as scapegoats. Just try to be the good friend you are, but once you have gave out advice, the friend can only take it or leave it. Don't sweat it after that, you did your part, you know.
2006-07-04 21:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is taking to much crap from this guy. If he really wasn't having sex like he claims, he would have invited her. Also, this sounds like pure trash from the hood. Seriously, tell her to find herself some decent boy. There must be guys that look like Usher or whoever she likes but pull off this kind of crap. She is taking to much crap. Also, STD! Groupies! Please, don't rish that either. Wifey my butt. He man! Obviously, he is every women's man! Cut with the crap and dump his ***, is what she should do. Maybe he wil realize wiffey has had enough of this bs! Good luck :)!
P.S: No offense to you if you like myspace but I hate that ****!
2006-07-04 21:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by SweetTina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like the arrangement she should leave it. She might tell him this is her intention and give him the option of making changes.
2006-07-04 21:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE IT!!! is the girl crazy i would have been left his behind.his club shouldnt be before me cuz i should b his #1
2006-07-04 21:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Chelly P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried she's not maybe she don't care or like it! Even if you tell her what to do if she care that much about him she is not gonna do it!
2006-07-04 21:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy smokes....is this question for real? a mind is a terrible thing to taste
2006-07-11 19:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's really good?.You know how we do!Tell her don't be stupid!Take it to his azzzz!!!!
2006-07-04 21:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not put it past him
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2006-07-04 21:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by edward b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o my gosh she is being played big time if your her friend help her out!!
2006-07-04 21:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Krazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋