My freind lives in Ga and I am in SC, we have been seeing each other for 4 years and i am inlove with him. He is living with his baby's mother, but he still say that he loves me.
2006-07-04 14:32:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope because u never noe if hes feelin his baby mother too.Its difficult wit these long distance relationships cuz all u can have as proof is their voice u cant look in their eyes and really noe....u feel me?
2006-07-04 14:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tel him that he can give money to his baby's mother for child support and the kid can see him every summer or every so months or something but you can't wait for him forever just cause he had a kid before he et you. You can't sacrifice your life even if you love him to death. You are going to die a dam widow if you wait for him. Make that a prove of his love for YOU and not the mother of that little boy.
2006-07-04 14:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by SweetTina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um,he has a BABY with another woman,but he's been with you for 4 years? You still trust what this guy says?!!!! Run,do not walk,away from this fool and when you look for another guy;make sure he deserves your gift of total trust!
2006-07-04 14:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by Maw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this sounds really dodgy girlfreind!!! If he loves you so much why is he still living with his babies gf and not with you? I would seriously take some time out and revaluate the situation. Sounds like your 2nd best to me.....Trent
2006-07-04 14:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by City C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a dead end for now. Don't sit around waiting for someone living with another woman. There is child support if he lives on his own . I think he is tellling you fables.
2006-07-04 14:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was going to leave he would have. Drama with the baby mamas is not fun. Hes hanging on you when hes upset with her. It doesnt matter if you have a kid or not. When youre not happy you look elsewhere.
2006-07-04 14:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey... what's the matter? You don't have to wait for a guy who is actually away from you. You can't assure that he is already flirting with other girls there and saying also "I love you" to them.
Go on with your life honey.. you wasted four years and it is a long time...! Gosh! Can't beleive this thing....
2006-07-04 14:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by vhernice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like waiting for nothing go right ahead..I would not even speak to him anymore and move on and forget that anything ever happened...There is plenty of others out there and even better..
2006-07-04 14:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh nooooo!! Abort!!! End it quickly, that is a hot mess right there... Its one thing to go out with someone with children but if they are still living with their babymother, than that could get ugly even if she claims she's alright with it...
2006-07-04 14:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait, if he is living with another woman you should find another man. If he really loved you he would find different living arrangements rather than living with her.
2006-07-04 14:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋