My ex boyfriend who Broke up with me who is 21 in August. Has had sex with a 14yrd old and me which I just turned 17. He likes younger girls and has just gotten back after being sent away for 3 years. I lost my virginity to him and now after this he says the only reasonj why he dated me for 7 months was bcuz i threatened him i would turn him in. Hes telling everyone this to make me look bad and that I cant survive without him. We had sex about 10 days ago. wouldnt there be proof in me still? Plus people have seen us have sex. So the thing is how can i turn him in so he stops taking young girls virginity's like mine? I need to get him away from here so girls know he is more than just looks.
2006-07-04 14:30:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What....in the world....are you thinking??? You need to get some self-respect, and a mind of your own as well. What you are engaging in with this creep is not only way over your head, but dangerous. For one, do you know what kind of diseases he might be carrying? Two, why would you even think of giving yourself away like that? And three, when are you going to wake up to the fact this moron- and all those like him- is taking advantage of you and the rest?
Although I am no doubt going to hear it from all sides, I am saying it anyway; if he loves you...truly loves you, he would respect you and not see you as means to an end to get his desires met. If he cared for you at all, he would think of what such a thing would do to you emotionally. You have been used and you need to re-evaluate what you are doing to get yourself in these positions. If he does not want a relationship, does not show you any considerations, does not wish to date long term, and the first thing he does is try to crawl all over you, he is a piece of crap plain and simple. Sadly he gives the rest of us a bad name. More sad is that this is free to go on until you girls understand that when a bloke says he loves you, you need to look for proof of that before you readily believe him.
CheekandFolly has spoken. So there.
2006-07-04 15:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by cheekandfolly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 17 which makes you a legal age to consent to sex.....if this 21 year old is having sex with young girls..it is up to these girls to report him..not you...If you are doing this because the person no longer wants to date you then you are doing it for the wrong reason...you can go back to the first time that the 2 of you had sex and make that an issue but having sex with him now will not matter....
I would reccommend you to just stay away from this guy...if he is fact sleeping with teenagers his day will come to stand before a judge...
2006-07-04 14:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 17 now in some state it not illegal to have sex with a 17 year old but if you could talk the 14 year old into telling on him he will surely be screwed you could probably get him for statutory rape when you had sex with him at a younger age best this is you and the 14 year old file a case together against him at the police station for statutory rape of a minor and deflowing of a minor and sexual misconduct with a minor he will be arrested do time and been labeled a sex offender the rest of his life and it will trully screw up his life for the rest of his days but truly you wanted to have sex with him and under the laws of moses you would have been stoned to death but in modern days you can be a evil witch and **** him up for the rest of his life its up to you but you truly did want to have sex with him so kinda of a double edged karmic sword on your part so its on you. because you want to srew him over after he dumped you you should have told the pervert no to start with and knon of this would have happened or told your parents and they could have helped you instead of putting it out here you need serious help and jesus in your life child.
2006-07-04 14:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by abramelin_the_wise_mage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got yourself in a bad situation and plus the fact that even though you had sex with him ten days ago means there is probably no proof to work with. However though, if there was semen on one of your clothing article that has not being washed then maybe that could be used.
Good luck.
2006-07-04 14:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by OJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most states the age of consent is sixteen or seventeen so unless your state says the age of consent is older than seventeen there's nothing you can do.
You can stop having sex with him and get over him. If he is messing with someone under age sixteen you can tell the girl's parents and let them report him. But as far as reporting him for having consentual sex with you, I don't think anyone's going to bother doing anything about that.
2006-07-04 14:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by neona807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds quite serious. I think you need to talk to your parents and got with them to the police. You can turn him in that way if you make a direct complaint. Sounds like sexual assualt, or some form of it when he is taking the virginity of underage girls....Trent
2006-07-04 14:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by City C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he wasn't in jail for messing with kids? If he gets caught doing this he will always have to register as a sex offender. Turn him in. He is a pig.
2006-07-04 14:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD GO TO THE POLICE AND TELL THEM WHAT HAPPENED, NO MATTER HOW YOU YOU LOOK AT IT IT IS STATUTORY RAPE. IF THE OTHER GIRLS COME FORWARD IT WOULD HELP. SAVE SOME CLOTHES OR SOME EVIDENCE TO PROVE YOUR CASE. THIS IS BAD FOR HIM AND YOUR EGGING IT ON BY NOT COMING FORTH. SO LOOK AT IT THIS WAY, AND IM SERIOUS, IN COURT, THE LAWYERS FOR HIM WILL MAKE YOU LOOK BAD SO STAY STRONG AND INVOLVE SOMEONE YOU TRUST TO HELP YOU WITH THIS. TURN HIM IN BUT BE PREPARED TO PROVE YOUR CASE. IM BIENG REAL NOT MEAN
2006-07-04 14:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to have him charged go to the police. tell them what is going on and they'll be able to help you with the information you need. they'll know the laws that cover this. where was he sent away to? if it was jail then he may have priors for this type of behaviour. good luck with it and good on you for wanting to stop him taking advantage of other girls. :)
2006-07-04 14:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by gonetotallymad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is the age of consent, if you are up to 21, if you cosented to it, there isn't much you can do, however the 14 year old can really get him in deep ****....find the 14 year old... if he was in away" for three years, he is an idiot..
2006-07-04 14:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋