Okay, well I was seeing this guy named Erick for a couple of months and completely fell in love with him. Then he dumped me for the girl he admitted to me that he had been cheating with! I was heartbroken.. We got into a huge fight and he tried to commit suicide. (I'm still in love with him at this point.) So then, he asked me whether or not I would sleep with him if we got back together, and I said yes. Does him asking this mean that he only wants sex? Also, he tells me that he loves me all of the time and it confuses me. Then, he tells me that he can't break up with Hannah because he loves her too much. He really confuses me with all of that, becuase he says that he loves Me too. I love him so much, I'd die for him. I could really spend the rest of my life with him, but him cheating on me tells me that maybe I can't trust that he won't do it again. Oh, but I love him so much! What should I do about him? Please help me.
2006-07-04 14:06:20 · 11 answers · asked by cutestuff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy wants one thing and one thing only. Once he gets it, he'll move on. Better you move on first. Men (and women) are like a city bus, if you miss this one there will be another one in 15 minutes.
2006-07-04 14:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by GregW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart. I dont care what he saids he really doesnt love you. First of all if he did he wouldnt have cheated on you in the first place. I want to die crap thats his way of getting you to stay with him. Its pitty hes really controlling you by doing that sorta of thing. Sleeping with him is pressuring you because you dont want him to leave.. I dont think so. Honestly if he was going to commited sucide he sure and hell wont tell you about it. He would do it. I think you might feel like youre die for him hes the one. But lets reexamine this would you really want this person too be with you forever. After playing mind tricks and hurting you like that. He doesnt derserve anyone but a white jacket. This isnt love you dont hurt the one you love.
2006-07-04 21:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with everybody else, you should just leave him and get someone who will be with YOU and only YOU!!!!! If this guy won't break up wit hthe other girl, then that means he just wants sex and thats all. ALSO warn the other girl and if she gets mad, then thats her problem, but at least you warned her about this messed up guy! Whatever she does after is not ur problem! but all you REALLY need to do is leave him and never look his way again!! cause he justs wants to hit it and leave
srry if all this is confusing but i hoped i helped... :)
2006-07-04 21:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree with your assumption, it sounds like he only wants sex from you and nothing more. If he won't break up with this other girl, then that's all you need to know. Time to move on.
2006-07-04 21:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you will, but you are not going to be happy either way. You are too mopey for this guy -- he is not worth it!!! If you have sex with him, you aren't going to be happier. My advice is to run away from him as far and fast as you can -- find someone else!!!
2006-07-04 21:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Wasabandmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'd get together with him if he joins the AirForce. Sounds like what you're looking for is a man, and what you got is self-indulgent sissy.
2006-07-04 21:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE CAN'T BREAK UP WITH HANNAH, YOU ARE JUST LETTING YOURSELF BE USED. IF HE LOVE'S HER TOO MUCH, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE? DON'T BE THE SPARE TIRE, DOORMAT, SECOND FIDDLE. YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT, STAND UP, TAKE PRIDE IN YOURSELF, & DO THE RIGHT THING FOR YOUR FUTURE~~~~~~~~
2006-07-04 21:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by islandwavehunter@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sounds like he's trying to hit as much as he can.
2006-07-04 21:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by 451 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he no your feling bad tryign get as much as form you lol sorry
to say if ino try kil lyour slef iwood not everr ask you back outlol
2006-07-04 21:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him and dont look back..Hes playing games...
2006-07-04 21:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋