my boyfriend and i have been together for at least 4 months now but a few weeks ago he went to his dads for the rest of the summer, he said we'd keep contact through e-mail, and that he'd try and call but i haven't heard from him since. I've e-mailed him a few times but i still have no response and i know for a fact that he's been on. I know he checks his e-mail so why do i get no response?
2006-07-04 13:41:19 · 13 answers · asked by Lizzy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure he cares
he just is busy
don't do anything rash that you will regret later
wait till he come back before you do anything
2006-07-04 13:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were U,I would like to consider on the folowings my dear!
1/ How do U feel ,his response and intention to view and check those e-mails that U send him?
2/ Write down or digest one by one,what had happened ,since his "Diappear Himself"
3/ Do U miss him!
4/ Do U feel good when he back back to U!
5/ Do U believe what he did say?
6/ In what extend U love him?
7/ How do U gusess,and how often he check those?
8/ Try to do in positive direction and really on a totally positive way,not to bother him,but love,and ask polietly ,in positive words,why this happened.
9/ Set deadline for his response and review his feelback from time to time,see his feelback in what EXTEND rating as positive on the tone from 0 to 9,wher e0 is the most nagative one and 9 the best!
10/ Any further response with heart and positive attitude ,will lead to a open area that U should go further,and follow up.
I Love U with GOD's Bless!
2006-07-04 13:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by russclara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a wide number of reasons you aren't getting any response. For starters, even though you "know" he's been online, perhaps he hasn't really had the time to sit down and compose an email. Could it not be one of those only having time to check and leave? His father could be keeping him busy and restricting his email time. He could be going out and doing things with friends that he has there that he doesn't get to see that often. I am assuming the two of you are in junior high or high school? This is the fun time in your lives, take it while you can. You go out with your friends and keep yourself busy and don't step on his time with his father and friends. Four months isn't that long to be together. You'll find that as you grow.
2006-07-04 13:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no one knows for sure if he cares except for him. But, ask yourself a few things. Have you bombarded him with emails? If so, he may feel that you're being clingy, and may want space. Have you tried calling him once or twice? If you can get hold of him by phone, you may be able to ask him exactly why he hasn't answered you. Try to exercise all ways of getting in touch with him, but make SURE that it's in moderation, or else you'll seem clingy or needy, and that might drive him away.
Good luck!
2006-07-04 13:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Elyse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are young and this is just a relationship to pass the time than it is probably just that he is preoccupied with the new place and his activities with dad. If you two are older and more serious about each other than he should have called!!! If this is the case go out and get yourself a new one because a real committed relationship takes communication!!
2006-07-04 13:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by calgal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there a reason if he hasnt anwer your e mail, an you not for a fact his checked it, maybe he is letting you no now that he is breaking it off, are maybe by doing this he knows you will be upset an probaly be the one that causes it quits, an if i was you thats just what i do , he is not worth it an there is no excuse for not calling , if he really cared. he would have already done it,
2006-07-04 13:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by cris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's summer honey --- send him an e-mail that says you and him are finished --- then go have fun with your friends and check out the cute guys!
2006-07-04 13:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe email him again and ask why he hasn't responded because you hope he's doing okay. If approach it casually like you care but aren't obsessing, he should understand your concern and at least send a quick response.
2006-07-04 13:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by mistressmalice23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in a distanced relationship and i can handle that because we still keep in contact a lot.. but a relationship without contact is just hard to keep up... i think that he really does care he just doesnt have time... i think that he should have a little bit of time to call or email you if he cares that much! but you may want to just give it time... i think he'll call eventually
2006-07-04 13:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are teenagers, it is to be expected that a guy would be so involved with his family, that you might not hear from him. If you are in your 20s or older sounds like he doesn't care as much for you as you do for him.
2006-07-04 13:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋