I can't take it anymore. I'm 14-years old and she treats me like I'm two! My parents have been divorced for six years, I don't know if that has anything to do with it. She always thinks I'm up to something! Please, 30 word min. on answers.
2006-07-04 13:41:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hmmm... tough one... I guess just ask your mom if it's possible to get a little more privacy and ask to put a lock on your door. Don't give her any reason for her not to trust you.
Sometimes it's hard for parents to see that we've grown up. I'm 27 and live on my own. My grandma still calls me everyday to warn me about talking to strangers.
2006-07-04 13:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
The divorce could have something to do with it...but it's hard for me to say, because my parents aren't divorced. I know a lot of people who's parents are divorced, and there are similar situations. As long as you aren't up to something every time - she'll probably just stop bothering you. Give it a try.
2006-07-04 20:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by mr_kors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and tell her that you need some alone time to "take care of business" (masturbate). That her busting in gives you anxiety problems because you are afraid of being embarassed. That you would hate for her to cause anxiety problems that have a sexual basis because then you will begin to fear sex. Then she will never have any grandkids and it will be all her fault.
Then get a lock on the door, or a door stop to put on the inside so she can't open the door.
2006-07-04 20:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by charice266 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We moms will always care what your doing. It's a way of keeping you safe and out of trouble. Try to understand. Have you given her any reason to not trust you. Try to talk to her without sounding defensive and let her know that your not doing anything you would just like to have some time to yourself sometimes like she dose. You are one of the lucky ones that their mom cares enough to look and want to be around you. Try to be understanding. She loves you.
2006-07-04 20:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by laurelbush28762 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, this isn't a sicko answer but it worked for me when I was little.
My step mother walked in to my room in the middle of an afternoon wanking session.
Ever since then she knocked and waited for me to open the door or yell come in or something. I'm not saying you should do this. Only it worked for me...
2006-07-04 20:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by LEBDOG 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bottom line is: she is your mother and you are under age, living in her house. She feeds and clothes you. It is HER responsibility to raise you until you are 18 years of age. While privacy is appreciated at your age, it is not an automatic given right. If it means so much to you, demonstrate that you are trustworthy and responsible. Throwing temper tantrums isn't the appropriate way to do so. But understand that it may not be possible to sway her mind.
2006-07-04 20:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to set down with her and tell her how you feel and ask her if her mom did this to her? Tell her you would like some privacy. You can kinda get her use to the ideal by at first let your door open some times and eventually she should get use to it.
2006-07-04 20:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Explain to your mom that you are now a teenage boy and request her knocking on the door in case you are changing your clothes etc.
2006-07-04 20:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by older woman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her that you feel your mature now. Your 14 and would appreciate it if she would knock from now on. That your not up to anything you just value your privacy. Good Luck!
2006-07-04 20:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
treat her like she is two, barge into her room and do the same things she does to you, maybe she will understand what privacy means!
2006-07-04 20:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋