Would you allow a teenager to have sex, and when would you have sex after dating somebody?
2006-07-04 13:40:35 · 21 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say the best results you'll get if you start it after your marriage, wheather you are a guy or a girl.
Girls usually start to develop their special girly body in the age of 14, but it takes about 6 years to become a girl completely. That means before 19 or 20 or so a girl is not enough matured physically. And if any girl have sex before she is 19 or 20 then she will have her those places injured and when she will be 24 or so she will start to feel that she can't enjoy it anymore and lose the most senses in her those places. And just like that it shouldn't be done at the early age, it also might cause bad problems for guys too.
Emotionally, I'd say that these things should have done after marriage and you'll see that you'll not get things messed up.
2006-07-04 14:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no, I would not allow a teenager to have sex now that I am a grown man and understand the meaning of sex. When you are a teenager, sex is strictly a status symbol, it means nothing. The guys are horny little bullfrogs and the girls are sometimes pressured into it, others they are also horny little bullfrogs. When you are in a REAL relationship you will know. The feeling of the time being right for sex will seemingly just arrive. Hopefully it is after being with that person for a good while, but, the sexual feelings will come, you will know when it is right. If you are not sure if it is the right time then it isn't. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT!!
2006-07-04 20:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by golferguycc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you knlw the prons and cause of sex and you understand the relationship responsibility after sex then you can have sex. The whether in teenage or not realy it dont have any significance its a sociaty rule made to be matured and to underrstand the responsibility.
When you come across the sex, It should not be for only sexuality point of view but some you should have some firm decesion of your future you should have some ground about your partner then only sexual relationship can progress
you are a part and parcel of sociaty so you are abdoned by sociaty rule. if you are strong and firm go ahead
2006-07-08 14:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by sani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't allow my teenager to have sex, but I wouldn't exactly have this expectation that they will save their virginity till their wedding night. Especially considering today's society and how pre-marital sex is socially acceptable and very wide spread.
There is no best time for you to have sex with your partner at a certain stage of your time dating, it's different for everyone. Some people can handle the emotional and physical demands of sex at an earlier stage of dating, some have to be with their significant other for a while. It really boils down to what the couple is comfortable with.
2006-07-04 20:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by steveb106 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers tend to caught up in the heat of the moment. Back in the day I remember reading somewhere that 9 months was pretty standard. It's a personal choice, and I feel like teenagers really shouldnt be sexually active... but they're going to be anyway.
9 months doesnt sounds terrible. I mean, high school relationships can really be a flash in the pan. If you're with someone that long, it's a pretty solid bet. If you do after just one month... you'll probably regret it.
2006-07-04 20:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Drew H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers are sexualised at a younger age now, it is a fact of life. Simply have sex when both parties have got bored of petting. Could be the first night, could be a few months, don't rush into things, just go with the flow.
2006-07-04 20:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by Robert W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 20 so when i have a kid and they are a teenager it will be years down the line, and my views will have probablly changed drastically. but as of now i feel teenagers are very capable (16+) of making their own decisions (or in this case mistakes) and will make them on their own w/or w/out help...so the best is to be supportive and only give advice as in protection, and ways to protect oneself.... and as far as having sex with someone there is nooo certain amount of time.. u know when your ready to take a realationship to that point with someone, every individual relationship is different theres no right or wrong amount of time......except when your crazy drunk, and your going purely on hormones and not putting any thought into it lol...then its just a GREAT time
2006-07-04 20:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by ~amber~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
USE the head attached to your shoulders and don't do something stupid. And NO NO NO teenagers should NOT be having sex. What is with the kids today, why not wait?
2006-07-04 20:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by bitchy_woman_yet_sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3-4 hours into the date is a good time to do it
2006-07-04 20:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all ur only 14 15
seconed of all dont send me back a message iam 19 goen on 20 and you shuldent be asking that question untill ur at least 17 or181!!!!!!!!1
2006-07-04 20:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by amynicolesupchc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋