Yah its me again. Im the girl who is likes the railroad conductor ,whom I met at the hotel that I work at. I've been completely obsessing over being just a booty call. Anyhow, He called me last night and I didnt pick up the phone.He left a message saying he called just to see how I was doing. I'm trying to turn the tables. Im not going to return his call until the day after tommorow. Smart Plan?
Maybe distance can make the heart grow fonder.?!?
2006-07-04 13:10:40 · 12 answers · asked by Dazed and cONFUSED 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys don't like games and they think that the girl is loosing interest in them so they give up the chase. I find that the guys that get the girls easily are the ones challenged with the hard-to-get types or the unreachables. The guys that thinks they will never find anyone or that they're not that great of a catch will give up so quickly. Then there are the clueless ones that just think the girl is not interested.
So just be honest. That always seems to work the best.
2006-07-04 13:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is coming from a a guy....... with personal experience with the whole playing hard to get... that can backfire..trust me I know... this chick was playing hard to get and I got tired of all the wondering and running around and playing phone tag... so I just quit and went on about my business.... so if your going to play hard to get.. at least return calls in a decent time frame (like no later than a day I would say) but also.. make him want you!! .. like leave him subtle ideas in his email and or voice mail just to make him wonder...lol
2006-07-04 13:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by karl12982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder... for someone else.
Hard to get... is a valid strategy... and it works on some... But let's face it... It's a GAME. I loath any games played in the context of a relationship.
I'm not saying "GIVE AWAY THE FARM" on day one.... but to be COY or pretend you're not interesting... is a double edged sword.
2006-07-04 13:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the long run, playing hard to get just makes things worse. Contrary to what you might think, playing hard to get is a HUGE turnoff to a lot of guys. They give up easily and would rather go for someone who they're not gonna have to struggle ridiculously with.
2006-07-04 13:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you responded to my comment in a nasty fashion you must be obssesed with small pennis white boys, grow up ho and get you a real black brotha, if u want that pussie beat up the right way hollas back at me I show u who has a small pennnis.
2006-07-04 13:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by JOHN T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good plan. Be receptive but not obsessive. We like a challenge. If you believe someone is obtainable you'll keep trying . If she fawns all over you too soon you'll lose interest in keeping her in your life.
2006-07-04 13:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get works on an extremely limited number of guys. Usually playing "hard to get" is interpret ted by us as meaning that you not interested. NEXT!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-04 13:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing, by playing hard to get. Keep it up.
2006-07-04 13:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like when women play too hard to get.. just get to know him better and see if he wants you for shallow reasons.
2006-07-04 13:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the man your trying to get is sensitive then dont play hard to get or he will dump you(a.k.a. not good) if they are a gogetter, weirdo, always happy guy iguess its ok.
2006-07-04 13:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by narutofreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋