My girl and I that I just got with took a trip to New Orleans this past weekend. Her cell phone is broken so she can only use the speakerphone. Well, she has gotten calls all weekend from dudes she says are just for conversation. They are calling asking her things like, so I guess you still don't have time ha?, did u get the dinner invite?, or when are u gonna be back?. What is the deal with this picture
2006-07-04 13:00:02 · 9 answers · asked by ceo1callaway 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you exclusive? I would ask her if she sees your relationship as casual. If so, she is free to date others as well as you.
Good luck!
2006-07-04 13:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by cheekandfolly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound to me like you have anything to worry about. 1.)She went on a trip with you, not any of the other guys. 2.) She answered the phone knowing you had to listen to the conversations. 3.) The guy that asked about time let you know he isn't that important to her, the guy that asked about dinner is someone she really looks at as a friend but she knows he doesn't, and the guy who wanted to know when she'd be back you will probably meet cause he knows she didn't go on the trip alone. 4.) You did say you just got with this girl so give it time and if you don't meet theese guys and the calls continue then you have something to worry about.
2006-07-06 13:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by soul child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they just friends or something else? I'm going to dinner later this week with a guy friend-- we've been friends for nearly four years and there is nothing romantic between us. Best advice? Trust her, but don't invest your feelings completely. If you go looking for suspicious things, you're sure to find them-- whether true or not. Give it time. Get to know these people. If she keeps you seperated from them, a red flag should go up. All of my closest friends know one another. We're comfortable around each other. No secret identities. Oh, and be secure in yourself. If things aren't going as planned, talk with her. If you're uncomfortable, walk away. First instincts are usually right.
2006-07-04 20:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by sportyblush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably just a flirt...
You aren't in some commitment with her?
You can try talking to her and telling her how this makes you feel. See how she responds. See if she is worth staying with.
Maybe she is just having fun in life and enjoys the company of different personalities. Maybe she is playing you? Maybe she is just very outgoing,etc.
2006-07-04 20:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The deal is, she playing you for a fool. Get the hell away from her. She should be refusing the calls just out of respect for you and doesn't. What dose that tell you ???
2006-07-04 20:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound so good to me either. Look out so you don't get hurt. She doesn't seem to have put her foot down to these guys that you and her were together and shouldn't be calling.
2006-07-04 20:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably has male friends. If she were hiding anything from u, I think she would have her cell repaired.
2006-07-04 20:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sheila N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a player?
2006-07-04 20:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by iranian gurl and proud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOLDDIGGER OR HO........ SRY JUST BEING REAL
2006-07-04 20:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by reddishlady29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋