Please give tip on what to do.. I love him but I was not happy about my past.. thats why I didn't tell the truth. Help Help Help..
2006-07-04 12:55:53 · 16 answers · asked by multitalk26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont have to say much about your past, if you dont like. But dont lie...that just gets you in trouble. You need to tell him the truth.
2006-07-04 12:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by MandyHawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what your past really was.
But if you really love him, you should tell him that you can't live with the lie. Tell him you hated your past, and wanted to change. It seems like you have since you met him, and you have a guilty conscience about not telling him. Well, good luck.
2006-07-04 19:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry less about your life and his before the two of you fell in love. Both of you are making a fresh start with each other. Keep it that way. If he truly loves you then should be no prob in understanding anything that may arise about you. I am sure he has a few tarnished memories locked away somewhere.
2006-07-04 20:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Gary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on what u have kept to urself it might be best if u keep it to urself. some things are neccessary to be told. especially if they have no bearing on ur relationship w/ ur boyfriend. if its in ur past and it has nothing to do with u now, leave it in the past. that can ruin a relationship if ur guy is not understanding enough to accept u for u.
2006-07-04 20:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should only delve into the past with a present boyfriend if the matter of the past is affecting you or your relationship TODAY. if it's not an issue today, the leave the past well alone.
2006-07-04 20:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by Gigi-ohm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him like you say you do and your past is something that he really should know about. He should be told then.
2006-07-04 20:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of 5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you hide about your past? That will depend on if you should tell him. You shouldn't lie, but you can beat around the facts.
2006-07-04 19:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends what you lied about, and if it is something that will affect him. Anyhow you should just tell him the truth if it's bothering you this much, especially if it's something that will affect him. Honesty is always the best policy.
2006-07-04 20:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relations are built on trust,part of being able to trust is to be truthful.If he really cares for you and you for him than explain it to him and he should understand.If you wait and it comes out later or worse, he finds out from another source,that will cause problems and hurt feelings.
2006-07-04 20:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by roninrkb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should confess and tell him you didn't want him to think badly about you and you didn't see it going anywhere so what was the harm you thought. you didn't really reveal what you were ashamed of. so it could have been something simple or something as complicated as telling him you were a virgin.
2006-07-04 19:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋