If a girl is so pickey when choosing a boyfriend and doesn't date for many years because of this bad habit, should she eventually settle for any kind of guy just because her friends are dating and she is tired of being single, or should she wait for her "Mr. Right" ?
2006-07-04 12:55:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've waited you better pick a good one. It's like on Survivor when an endurance task is on . If you are not going to stand on a log the longest don't waste 16 hrs coming in 3rd!! Settle for less quickly or wait it out for the quality.
2006-07-04 13:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Thinker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jenniferp this ain't a Loreal advert 'because your worth it' lol.
I'm exactely the same and it's got me thinking now. I've been on a couple of dates this year and it didn't do me no harm. I'd rather the guy do the chasing so if it doesn't work out or the date is really cr*p then you move on easily without getting hurt and it's not even a big deal.
If you don't go on any dates then you won't find out whether you like that someone or not, they could be the guy you wanna spend the rest of your life with.
Totally contradicting myself but sometimes it's good to wait till the right one comes along, and you should know it's the right one, you'll know because you'll get butterflies and feel really happy. You may not feel it straight away though so maye you need to go on these dates. Don't force yourself into anything though.
Don't know how old you are but you sound quite young so i wouldn't worry, think how many men there are out there. Don't feel like you should be with someone just because you friends are, whats the point then. What are you trying to prove ? Who says you need to be with someone. I'm happy with my single life, i mean i'd love MrRight to come along but i wanna make the most of my single life before he does. I actually think i found my MrRight but i told him i wasn't ready for that yet, said i was too young. I can't stop thinking about him and i knida regret turning him down because i think he may be the one. I had douts so knew it weren't right. If it's meant to be it'll happen. I believe in fate and that you shouldn't look for love it will find you, but also remember you can't just sit back, sometimes you've gotta go for things.
You've got time don't worry, until you get into your 50's and still single and not been on no dates then i'd worry lol.
Hpe that all made sense ;-)
2006-07-04 13:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to see every man I went on a first date with as a potential husband..well guess what? I went on a lot of first dates and am not married. Don't settle, if you're tired of being single...DATE more. A date is NOT a commitment to anything more then some of your time. Mr. Right will come around, but for now keep having dinner with mr right now
2006-07-04 12:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thr right man is worth the wait. You won't be happy in a relationship if you think you had settle for less. At the same time it's not fair for the guy as well. He deserve someone who think he is best but when he is with you, you are taking away his chance of ever knowing the right woman for himself.
2006-07-04 13:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Broke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle for less. You're worth it. Dating someone doesn't mean you have to marry him, just means you're dating and playing the field. Nothing wrong with it. Just remember to have fun with it. If your comfortable with yourself while dating, there won't be any hard feelings when you drop the guy date if he doesn't happen to be Mr. Right.
2006-07-04 13:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl dosent date for a long while usually it means she hasnt found the right person to date, maybe she is happier with her single life and dosent want a relationship at the mo, but no she wouldnt date just to fit in if shes that "picky" as you say
2006-07-04 13:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's precisely it. even as one cheats that is with the desire of looking what one thinks lacks contained in the courting one already has. even as it would not finally end up so. human beings opt for or settle to stay with the only they cheated on. besides the undeniable fact that the desire under no circumstances is going away of looking what one needs. because of this with time if one meets somebody else, one thinks might want to fulfill ones needs and desires. One cheats back.
2016-10-14 03:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself a question and care about yourself enough to answer honestly... why are you soooo pickey? Consider your answer and I guarantee you will know what to do.
2006-07-04 14:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you who is "mr right" unless you go out with them...
Everyone has special qualities... Just not everyone though has a barcode tattoed on their forehead saying "Mr Right - This Years Model - On Sale At £9.99"
Have fun... ;) grin...
2006-07-04 13:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neverrrrrrr
2006-07-04 12:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋