i have 2 boys i want 2 date. both like me. they told me
1. cute, bad boy, lives near me, sensitive but has come from a bad family and has anger issues.
2. cute, sensitive, also live close but his problem is he wont admit to me that he also wants to b w/ another girl and he never calls me b/c he says hes to busy. i like him more though. who should i chose
2006-07-04 12:15:38 · 27 answers · asked by hottie4eva153 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd have to say keep looking!!
Getting involved with someone who has an anger issue isn't a safe bet. And the other guy likes someone else. Neither sound like the right choice for me.
Keep looking ... there are a lot more boys out there ... you will find one who is right for you in time.
2006-07-04 12:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sensitive + bad family + anger issues seems like an equation for trouble. The other one doesn't seem interested in you. How about "none of the above." I'm confident you can find cute, adventurous, fun, lives near you, without the bad family and anger issues if you keep looking.
2006-07-04 12:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tom_is_already_in_use 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... Sounds like the bad boy is probably trouble, with an anger problem and a bad family rep, watch your step!But you have be careful w/ the other one too. How much is he into this other chick? Maybe he actually is to busy for a phone call? watch him for a while, wait and see I don't know anything about these guys so the decision is ultimately up to you. and if Bachelor number one has an anger prob. that is enough for you to mention, don't waste you time with him, you may just end up getting hurt.
Good Luck and I hope it works out, whatever you choose
2006-07-04 12:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, boy #1 sounds like he could turn out to be a real jerk and could possibly get abusive (judging from his anger and family issues), and boy #2 sounds like he doesn't really want to be in a relationship and could have commitment problems (if he has trouble telling the truth he could be unfaithful, etc.). So in theory, YOU DESERVE A LOT BETTER than either of them. Do be in too much of a rush to get with a guy. The right one will come along when you least expect it!
2006-07-04 12:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by MEB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. They are two incomplete personalities. I want to be careful how I put this. They may both be nice and appealing in their own ways, but they are not completely developed as people if they formulate two extremes. I am going by the stereotypes of men you have presented. Unless you view them the wrong way and that's the problem. If they are really at two ends of the spectrum, search for someone who is more well-rounded. Opposites may attract but they don't last. If two personalities are too similar, they simply mirror each other, which is not challenging or interesting.
If it's because you hardly know either of them, give them each a chance but don't lie to them. Be friends first and hang out. If you go out, do not lie about seeing other people and don't sleep with either of them till you have picked one. Don't play with people's emotions.
2006-07-04 12:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is you could be like me when I was 14 and just flip a coin. It was a silly way for me to choose between to great guys and I ended up picking the one I didnt like as much because I knew the other guy liked another girl and me. Four months later I ended up with the other guy and we dated for 7 months. Honestly, do not settle for one guy just because the other one doesnt pay you as much attention. Be upfront with him and try out a relationship with him. If you don't and choose the other guy he might also turn out to be great but you will always wonder about the other one. Follow your heart sweetie. Only you can decide. You already know which one YOU honestly want to be with. If this doesnt help make up a list of all the things you like and dislike about guy number one and a list for guy number 2 then compare
2006-07-04 12:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither as both have unresolved issues. You don't need to be with a guy with anger issues or one that likes som other girl. Leave them both alone and be wise. Find you somebody better than these 2! Don't you think you deserve better than this?
2006-07-04 13:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one. Number two doesnt deserve you sweethear. You need a guy that thinks of you all day, and treats you like a princess. He doesnt call you, well thats just the beginning! Number one's anger problems can be fixed... and altho he comes from a bad family, maybe you could find a special connection with him - kind of take him under your wing.
Good luck!
2006-07-04 12:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say go for the one who likes you the most. as I mean you like them both right? so whatever you you end up with youll be happy. the 1st one sounds like he will give you his time and he will care fo you the second one sounds like he is attracted you but he couldnt care less if you went out or not. So from the descriptors id say choose the bad boy have some fun.
2006-07-04 12:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither the two. The first one is bad and could act kind of agressive towards you which can turn into abuse. Trying to change him will be a waste of time because you can't change someone. The second one is a cheater meaning you cant't trust him and you always will have doubts which will intefere with your life.
2006-07-04 12:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Peache264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋