I have a boyfriend and i love him but i am starting to fall for my ex boyfriend and he was really sweet and all and my parents liked him my parents dont like my new boyfriend i dont know wat to do stick with a guy that i really like or dump him and ask my ex out?
2006-07-04 12:14:04 · 13 answers · asked by Hailey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hailey---
Listen girl, I had the same exact experience 6 yrs ago. My heart was twisted in different directions! I almost made the mistake of getting back with my ex, but in the end I realized that if I left the one I was with then I would always think--what if I never did that?
What I did was tell my boyfriend my predicament and my true feelings. I figured if he really loved me I would find out in what he said. When I told him how I felt and that I was thinking of my ex, he was totally understanding and said he would let me do what my heart desired and would be waiting for my decision and that he loved me whatever I decided. I went on a couple coke dates with my ex and realized that the radical teenage love I had yrs before was no longer what I had thought. I dreamed that it was better than it ever really was and I was wrong.
Luckily for me, when I realized that my boyfriend was the one I loved then we stayed together and we have been together six yrs since then. My parents have never approved of him, but what matters is that I am happy. Sometimes parents judge on the outside appearance and do not realize how nice guys can be.
Your boyfriend will grow on them Hailey. My best advice is trust your heart and if you're not sure then don't hide your feelings. Be honest about what is going on and the one that really loves you will shine forth with undying patience. If either one of them truly loves you then they will patiently wait for your decision.
My boyfriend and I eventually got married and now we are about to have another anniversary---good things come to those who wait!
2006-07-04 12:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the Ex really if you need some more advice email me at Tadziac2000atYahoo.com ok but that's not my picture that's a picture of my mom im just answering people Questions ok!
2006-07-04 19:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all u need is listen to ur heart. My advice is that think about the good time u had with ur boyfriend. I think is good idea if u talk to ur parent and see what they gonna say to u about ur boyfriend. Hey good luck ok u need it.
2006-07-04 19:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by historyman_of_sa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that they both are a good choice, but I think that trying something new might also be in your horizon. How about not being involved for a while and search inside to see what you really are after, and what kind of person you think will be best for YOU.
2006-07-04 19:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by ddiscostu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your ex out first then if he says no your current bf will never know u thought of chucking him
2006-07-04 19:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by stu110185 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what your parents think you pick the one you like best.
2006-07-04 19:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-06-16 01:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, go for the ex!
2006-07-04 19:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to listent o your heart.
2006-07-04 19:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by prmb1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as prmb said...listen to ur heart...not to ur parents heart
2006-07-04 19:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋