Women often say that they can 'go without' for months on end, particularly after the end of a relationship. Most guys will tell you they are physically ready the next week. What's that all about? Are women telling the truth.?
2006-07-04 12:07:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, we're not telling the truth. I've 'officially' not had sex - as far as I tell anyone - for over a year. but it's a damn lie. we're labelled 'sluts' if we sleep around, so to preserve my rep and not to have to deal with people telling me how horrible I am, I lie. to preserve my sanity, I get sex. as much as I want. from whoever I want. whenever I want.
2006-07-04 12:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question is the most important any man entering a relationship must have an answer to. Does your mate like sex as much as you do for the sake of sex and not because of the attraction she may feel now.
Women are programmed to become disinterested the longer a relationship lasts. Not men. We need sex all the time and in order to be completely happy it must be part of the love you share.
There are many reasons why women loose interest. Age, The more she knows about her man the less attraction there is, no mystery left. Having children really shuts down the desire for awhile.
This is not something they can control. It just is.
Men have affairs because they are not getting all the sex they need. Women have affairs because they need that feeling of attraction again.
Overall the answer to your question is YES! But it is much more complicated with women.
2006-07-04 19:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, sex for women is a much different experience for than it is for men. For many women sex is an equally physical and emotional experience. While they may be physically ready at the end of relationship, they often are not mentally. Men are ready at the drop of hat because of higher testosterone levels. Men can also make a complete disconnect between the physical and emotional elements of sex.
2006-07-04 19:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by pure_genius 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While sex is equally important to women and men the difference mostly is because for us women sex is an extension of feelings and not just something we do lightly. Most women wait for the next relationship because we can't just go to bed with someone, most of the time we have to have something more than just the physical attraction there.
2006-07-04 19:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are telling the truth. The reason women aren't as ready and willing is because in order for her to be ready to go she has to be emotionally ready too, which means she has to be treated right and the relationship has to be in a good place.
2006-07-04 19:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, but some won't admit it....unless all the others in a group say the same thing and then they will chime in. Why do you think there are so many c*ck dildos in every size, shape, and color? Women should buy stock in Duracell. Nothing beats the real thing, but if you don't have a man handy the toys take the edge off.
2006-07-04 19:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm for one who loves to have sex the with the man of my dreams all the time, But I could hold off for a long time when I'm not in a relationship! So yes I can be without sex if I have too.
2006-07-04 19:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea we can go with out it @ the end of the relationship becuase women tend to stay stuck and stay in love with a man long after the relationship is done..guys let go faster and easier...but it is VERY important for a woman.
2006-07-04 19:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by JennyJenJen_uno.dos.tres. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, to most women sex is very, extremely important, just as it is for u men.
2006-07-04 19:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by milesamin96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the man and woman involved both can be lying or telling the complete truth
2006-07-04 19:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by Peache264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋