but then she didnt want anything to do with you? say it was a planned pregnancy but then she didnt want to be with you
2006-07-04 11:59:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
no i want the baby we both do but then all of a suddon she doesnt want me to be here for her she wants to be left alone
2006-07-04 12:03:23 · update #1
she told me now i have to pay for child support
i was planning on raising the child with her as a family i even was going to ask her to marry me
2006-07-04 12:08:33 · update #2
What a bunch of bull. Look at this loser's other question:
2006-07-04 12:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Bill S 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's in a pretty tough situation that she has never been in before (I presume). Give her the space that she needs and let her decide what she wants. Since you planned and wanted the baby, be the best father you can be, and remember that part of being a good father is respecting your child's mother.
Sorry I can't give you better news, but you can't force her to be with you -- would you really want to? She might change her mind after some time alone, or she might not, but you can't fault people for the way they feel. Sometimes things just don't go the way we planned. Sorry about that, but good luck -- things might turn out better than you think.
2006-07-04 19:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by devyn_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't she want to be with you? Start off by asking her that question. Being pregnant is a whole new emotional ballgame and we women don't always handle it with the most ease. She may just feel lonely and scared and feel that you're not being supportive. She may be afraid that you're going to leave her and if she pushes you away then she feels it was on her terms and her decision which is a lot easier to deal with then being left. I'd do everything you can to stick by her side, whether it be just telling her you love her and the baby and always telling her she's beautiful (she may worry that she's ugly and fat because she's feeling so puffy and bloated). Hopefully she'll come around. If not, then you may just have to go through custody battles and legal tangles.
2006-07-04 20:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably her hormones acting up. sometimes we as females say things that we really don't mean. kill her meanness with kindness. meaning continue being nice to her and being there for her even when she may not suspect u to be there. maybe she's afraid u would leave her and not help with the baby because many men do. when i found out i was pregnant, i didn't include my boyfriend in anything because i was preparing myself for the worst. i didn't think that he wanted to help raise the baby with me or anything like that, but i found out that he was willing to help in anything and is sticking by my side. don't give up she will eventually see that ur a good person and want to be there for her and the baby.
2006-07-04 20:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by hotgurl 04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a legal right to that child if its yours. You might want to look into your legal rights, and getting partial custody of the child. Sounds like she's a pretty selfish woman to begin with. when the baby is born, you will have to go for paternity tests to prove its yours, and claim your legal right.
2006-07-04 19:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah not much you can do until the baby is born, then go to the courts
2006-07-04 19:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Sydney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do all I could do be the best father for the baby.
2006-07-04 19:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Josh S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be the happiest man on earth. so what if she doesn't want to be with you you still get parental rights Congrats
2006-07-04 19:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk some sence into her she's going to need you later!!! Be nice though!
2006-07-04 19:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by ccuevas31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel misled or used... I'd probably fight for some custody of my kid.
2006-07-04 19:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by laydlo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋