I've never had trouble with girls and asking them out or anything, but now I am really attracted to this one girl and for some reason I feel overpowered by her. I feel like if I ask her to go out I fell like she will deny me and won't want to be with me. How can I get over this? How should I simply just handle the situation?
2006-07-04 11:10:12 · 20 answers · asked by North Dakota baseball player 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all don't put too much emotion into the situation. Its obvious that you care about this girl but if for some reason she does turn you down just remember its not the end of the world for you. Whats important is that you take a chance , sometimes good things happen when you do and sometimes things do go your way. But if you don't take a chance at all then NOTHING will ever happen!!! So having said all that , good luck to you my friend and I hope everything goes your way
2006-07-04 11:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by GFender 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Bust her balls. It totally works. Just treat her like one of the guys or just as a friend, like you would possibly never have anything to do with her in that way. Make fun of her, nothing mean though, tease her and just have fun with her. This will peak her interest in you. A woman does not like to feel like she cant have someone. Do that for about a week or two, then see if she wants to hang out just as friend. Like go to the movies as an companion, or hiking, etc.
Then as you two become hang buddies make small move on her. Such as when you are talking to her you will reach over and touch her arm briefly and then remove it. You must do this very smooth. You don't want her to think you want her. You see? Do this about two or three times in a row and after that , the next time you touch her leave your hand on her for a few seconds. Say you are talking and you place your hand on her knee...leave it there just a few seconds then take it away. Don't even bat an eye at what you are up to. Do it as if you have nothing in mind.
That will confuse her and she'll start thinking well does he want me or not. Pretty soon she will start flirting and I bet you she will make the first move.
Patients and being smooth is the trick ti this game.
Good luck!
2006-07-04 11:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by poobear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a special girl!! You are in the right place right now to be in the frame of mind that she might reject you. Over come by approaching her with some small talk (weather, locations, the time, jewelry, her unique ~ or common name - don't say common, though) and then look her in the eye and ask her if she would like to get to know you better outside of wherever you both are, or frequently see one another. It cannot hurt. Since you're feeling special about her, be sure to feel special that you took the courage and acted on your feeling. She's going to say "yes."
2006-07-04 11:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww do some thing really cute to capture her heart ... be sweet, caring, affectionate, mushy, and any other word that you can think of that will take her breath away. Just go for it you will never know until you try and if it doesn't work maybe shes not the one. So if that is the case just wait for the one special girl for you! And just remember Good things come to those who wait!!!!
hope i helped
2006-07-04 11:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Cheex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and Be confident, girls like men who are sure of them selves ( well not too sure ) keep her keen. If you really like her then just have to be yourself, because you wont be abe to fake it for long.
Dont feel over powered.. get to know her.. make her laugh and try to be her.. and see where it goes.. if she gives you a sign.. ask her out for a movie and keep those fingers crossed.. Good Luck !!
2006-07-04 11:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing ventured, nothing gained...in your mind you are thinking of all these terrible what ifs..so play them out to the end, what if she does turn you down? well then you get up tomorrow and set your sights on another, at least then you know and stop wasting your time daydreaming about this one, plus most people won't be rude or mean about it, they will let you down as nicely as possible so its not like she is likely to shoot you or say something horrible. you said you are very attracted to her, so it makes the stakes seem higher but really they aren't.
2006-07-04 11:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband swept me off my feet at our first meeting...when he kissed me, there was so much emotion I got scared and, literally ran away from him! But he was persistant, he said our first conversation knocked him out and he had to get to know me. Our 10 year anniversary is next year. So whatever you do, talk to the girl. If she's as special as you say, she'll see the truth of your feelings in your eyes. Don't ever be afraid of love.
2006-07-04 11:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sharon S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a number between 1 and 3...
Now scroll down...
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If you picked 1: Ask her out anyways.
If you picked 2: Play hard to get with her. Do not ask her out, but instead make her ask you out.
If you picked 3: Forget about her. Move on to someone else with whom you feel mutual attraction.
2006-07-04 11:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by Dana Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're in love buddy. I suggest that you go ahead and tell her that you like her so much.just that you like her but don't ask her out until you get a positive impression. I've chased my wife around for over 6 month before we started going out :)
good luck
2006-07-04 11:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by medgeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with her a few times on freind basis do a little flirting . Just little gestures. Make her laugh.And than say lets try to go out on a real date to see if there are any sparks.
2006-07-04 11:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋