im a strict roman catholic and my boyfriend touches me 'somewhere' n im not going 2 lie, i like it. is this masturbation? whether it is or not, is it wrong?
2006-07-04 11:01:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The proper forum for your question would at one of these links:
http://forums.catholic.com/forumdisplay.php?s=b5a6e6addbacc01a291b5a582f739733&f=4
http://www.ewtn.com/vexperts/conference.htm
http://www.vatican.va/archive/catechism/ccc_toc.htm
Try reading "Theology of the Body" by John Paul II or "Theology of the Body for Beginners" by Christopher West
May God bless you.
2006-07-04 11:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Masturbation is natural and nothing to be ashamned of, but people tend to make it seem that way because they become immature about the "Sex subject"
But what he was doing was not masturbation, dont be afraid to ask him what hes doing. When I first got sexually active with my BF I asked him what was what, and how to do what.
Sex is not unethical unless done in an unethical way, such as rape or cheating for example, or just pleasure... like a f*** buddy... lol
Its a spiritual thing between two people, that you would have fun with in like pillow fight, or play tag kinda fun I guess. At least thats how me and my BF do it before getting into it.
Ill stop, im sorry to much typing. Hope this helps.
2006-07-04 18:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Branwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not masturbation (which would be if you touched yourself like that). It's sexual behavior that is a mortal sin before marriage. If you want to avoid any sinful behavior, before you are married, keep it to the limit of a pleasant kiss on the cheek. Beyond this is treading into a slippery slope. It will also help men respect you as a lady and keep you from much heartbreak.
2006-07-04 18:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is a natural thing, anybody says they never did is lying. Being catholic myself, I was brought up thinking that I couldn't even think about such things, much less do them. Whether or not it's wrong is entirely up to you.
What your bf is doing is not masturbating, he's coping a feel.
2006-07-04 18:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by bobemac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think a "Strict Roman Catholic" would already know the answer to this.
2006-07-04 18:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no masturbation in pleasuring yourself, and though i know its "wrong" i personally do it anyways and im roman catholic. i think that as long as it keeps you from having sex too soon its fine. wether or not what your doing with your boyfriend is wrong..? that is your opinion. i would feel guilty personally but i would get over it eventually.
2006-07-04 18:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by chikka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in one thing: that if you ask God, Jesus Christ...and believe...he'll answer back:>so don't worry.
From another point of view...even though it's not masturbation ... it could turn him on in a way...that drives him to masturbate...and Jesus said, don't destroy those for whom Christ died..some where in Romans:>...so may b you shouldn't...plus don't add smth to the relationship that would make u feel uncomfortable or unsure...it's not healthy...:>May Jesus talk to you and tell you:>
2006-07-04 18:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by CONTENT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this isnt masturbation. masturbation is when you touch yourself. Im a catholic also and if you dont take it to far at all (sex) , you will be okay. but if you think it is wrong it probly is.
2006-07-04 18:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Brandot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am understanding you correctly then you need to dump him.
BUT
If it is like a guy does to do that m thing but how a girl does it, probably.
I am trying to be careful and how to answer you as to not offend you or anyone else.
The closet I can summise, maybe but If a girl could talk to you about it privately, that would be best.
Sorry I could not be any more help.
2006-07-04 18:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by 1saintofGod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not masturbation. Its fondeling or caressing. And if you like it. It is not wrong. But being Catholic I am sure you know that you should not go any further with him.
2006-07-04 18:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is an immortal sin no matter what.... so im not sure of an answer to your question
2006-07-04 18:05:42 · answer #11 · answered by mndckl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋