sex til marriage?

Question

I know of someone who is christian and waited til they were married to have sex with her husband. now that she is divorced, does she have to wait again til marriage or can she do it whenever with whoever? i was just wondering if you had to wait til marriage to take ur virginity or wait til marriage to have sex with anyone

Answer 1

If your friend is a Christian. She already knows the snswer to this.

This is bewtween your friend and God. She is the ONLY one that will answer for it. Regardless how many people agree or disagree with her.

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Answer 2

Even being divorced and going to get married later, you still should wait until marriage. Fornicating is a sin.

Here's something no divorced women would want to hear. In Matthew Jesus said that if a woman divorces and marries again then she committed adultery. That's crazy I know. If the spouse dies(like old age or injury) and the widow marries again that's fine.

So either way sex according to the bible is a sacred gift from God for married couples to keep them together.

Answer 3

It is very varried. THe most fundemental will say she is never truly divorced and may never have sex or re-marry.

Others will say abstinance is always the rule outside wed lock.

A few on the other side will say people were created sexual beings enjoy.

For me the right answer is abstinence unless it is clear that inorder for the relationship to deepen to a point of marriage sex as a deep expression of trust and love.

God and I talk a lot about sex. The best I understand, Sex is so powerful God would prefer we use it as seldom as possible because we really can not control/handle it well.

Answer 4

so u people thing virginity to be lost to boost urself in the society that u are no more a girl and ur a woman... do u feel nuns are doing nuisance... neither the catholic fathers...

virginity doesnt makes sense with ur SEX.... even when riding a bicycle or heavy work or body building can loose their virginity...

SEX is pure form of LOVE... why do u want to vain in public... or b4 marriage.,... why dont u wait until u partner comes i.e., marriage

onething i've tell u my frnd... that virginity would not be the sole source that u attain womanhood... the maturity in LIFE as well as in knowledge of LIVING.... ur loosing ur virginity to a stranger or to your boyfrnd... doent mean that ur a woman... though physically u'll be no more a virgin... but mentally.. so think of it..

i think sex after marriage is best forever.. there will be no more SINS by this...

Answer 5

It all comes down to what you believe.
1. You can say that, but sex is a way of life. It is not a Sin, but just another way for the church to gain control.
2. If she is divorced part of the reason could be sexual. I have met many people that are divorced and they stated that bad sex was part of the reason. I think that you should know what you are getting into before promising a life to someone and then later finding out they are as dry as toast.

Answer 6

Sex outside marriage is wrong. She has to remarry. It is to do with the santity of the body, not virginity.

What a lot of sceptics there are on here! I am getting married next month and my hubby to be and I are waiting until our wedding night. And why would that be so strange? And yes, I know he is a virgin, because he's really terrified!

Answer 7

I think she'll do the same thing b 4 she was married. But seeing she's more knowledgeable in sexology, it might b more difficult to abstain. The LORD is able 2 preserve that which is committed unto HIM. If one is a christian, then one needs 2 follow the dictates of the bible. Marriage is the foundation 4 real sexual intimacy, that's what our Creator approves of. YAHWEH blesses...

Answer 8

It's unfortunate about your friend. That is very rare, though, for a couple to wait until marriage (did he? I doubt it.....) to wait until marriage and then end up divorced. Very rare.

I think it is ALWAYS a good idea to wait until marriage to have sex. Sex should be reserved for marriage, and if you can stand one another without it, it is usually a good predictor that you'll be able to get along together with it.

Answer 9

That is bs. Your friend got divorced. Well that is how it works. People who want to wait till marriage to screw many times divorce. They get married just to screw, and are not happy with the relationship. This means that people get married because they are horney, not for the relationship, or "love". This is a bad system, so abandon it.

Answer 10

To me marriage is a unnecessary and severe priced sham as validated by the lengthy and painful breakdown of my moms and dads courting and the present divorce fee. i became purely waiting to fall in love. As a teen I looked round and concept the little ones round me conserving themselves to be in love and their relationships lasting mere weeks were extremely stupid so I waited to fall in love as an individual. i'm in a dedicated courting with an outstanding guy and that i do not favor something else today. i'm giving "it" up when we flow in jointly next 3 hundred and sixty 5 days. we are graduating so we are waiting til we both end the probationary era for our grad courses earlier we commence searching for an section.

Answer 11

I'm pretty sure that she needs to wait to have sex until she's married again. It's not so much about saving your virginity for that one person, it's about respecting your body, making sure that whoever you give it to, loves you purely and is not lusting after you (since one of the deadly sins is lust).