I've been really good friends with this guy for a year and he's fancied me since we met.. today i went out with him and i think it was supposed to be a date as he paid for my food and now i feel terrible!
He's the nicest guy i've ever met but i don't think i fancy him. Should i just go out with him and hope that he grows on me?
2006-07-04 10:01:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No.....I don't think that would work.....I mean, the acid test is, how would you feel about having serious sex with him?
My advice is.......wait a while (at least a week) Then invite him out and pay for him.
Say: "This is so great. It is brilliant being able to prove that a man and woman can be such god platonic friends, isn't it?!
If that doesn't work say "You are like a BROTHER to me......."
Good luck x
2006-07-04 11:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't go down that road. Make it clear to him that you can only be his friend. In the long run you'll both be better off for your honesty.
He's very lucky to have a friend like you who cares that much about his feelings, but you must think of yourself here too.
2006-07-04 10:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Stygian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, once you cross that line, there is no going back. Think about it carefully, because if it doesnt work out, you have not only lost your boyfriend, but your best mate too
2006-07-04 10:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and let him know you are just interested as a friend. Don't be shy... if you lead him on you're just going to hurt him.
2006-07-04 10:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anna Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT! i tried that. and i just broke up with him. and i think hes a terrible person. i got NOTHING out of the relationship and nothing was free will. everything was obligation. for the sake of ur sanity, just tell him u dont like him. or u'll end up wasting ur first relationship like me. :sigh:
2006-07-04 10:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by strictly_maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Jaz, i imagine you want to relax, you've a lot of time to finally end up a boyfriend, i comprehend that is type of of a cliche yet merely provide it time and also you may discover your suitable boyfriend strong success
2016-10-14 03:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you are friends and no more take him out then pay for the meal then that,ll balance things out no guilt then hope you sort things out with out any heart break good luck
2006-07-10 23:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by martin r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you think it was a date, so you cannot be sure . Maybe he just wanted to treat you?
2006-07-04 12:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by cheekandfolly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that would be unfair on him,just meet him as mates and try not to lead him on
2006-07-04 10:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no as you will be playing with his feelings, just say how you feel and be his friend
2006-07-04 14:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋