he's smart, going to uwmadison in wisconsin, with a 34 on his act's. he gets along extremely well with adults, but as for his sister (me), he hasn't been nice to me since i was four..no joke. besides being mean and a social outcaast, helately has been very violent and abusive...he isnt athletic (he rode a bike last week for the first time in 6 years) , but is strong, he doesn't know the limits of his own strength, when he hurts me when he's angry, his slaps and kicks hurt more than he realizes, and he has a major anger problem. my parents say they are doing something, but they refuse to share their secrets with me. i feel i should do sumthn, what should i do?
2006-07-04 09:56:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I can only suggest that he attends anger management sessions I have a son who sounds like your brother and there has been many serious violent events between him and them if your parents don't do anything then you will need to take a stand yourself and call the police I have called the police and my son has been doing really well he is now mixing with peers and the dramas at home have settled it has been a long road and the whole family need to be involved sometimes as parents we might make stupid remarks like we are doing something but in reality we are not sure what to do Be strong don't take his abuse charge him if you have to even if your parents are not happy about this good luck
2006-07-09 04:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in college I am going to assume he is 18 or over and therefor legally an adult. Next time he hurts you tell your parents if they don't do anything call the police. I know this will be hard for you since you love him and won't want to upset your parents but this is a very hazardous situation. Another option to calling yourself would be talking to a conselor and letting them report him. I would also suggest you seek a support group, like a woman shelter...not to move in but to have someone to talk to that understands and won't judge you or your situation.
Keep us posted. I am praying for you!
2006-07-05 21:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how bad is he hurting you? If he is abusive to you try staying away from him when he is alone. And even if your parents say he is getting help. Get help yourself. There are a lot of counslers who could help. Maybe even a battered womens group, if they can't help you they can guide you to a place that can. But please don't just wait for your parents secret plan to work. In the mean time you could get seriously hurt. I wish you much luck.
2006-07-04 17:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. Alert an authority, tell your own doctor (this is the best way to ensure something is done).
2006-07-04 17:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by wham_dummy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he's abusive again, report him to the police. Your parents'll definitely take notice there.
2006-07-04 17:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him when you are alone
2006-07-04 17:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by minnie m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋