My boss is married and she says she wants me and I soooo want her. What would you do?

Answer 1

Go for it hun... life's too short.

Answer 2

I agree with the person who advised trying to take the sexual tension home to your husband. Your husband could get the benefit of that if you wind up just converting that energy into better, more exciting sex with him, which might dampen your energy the next day at work. It's hard to deny an attraction to someone else, but the stakes are so incredibly high here-- you don't want to lose your husband, and you WILL If you succumb at all (and you'll lose a little part of yourself, too). You could try just to take it as a big compliment that this other guy is into you, as well, but don't let yourself get into any sort of situation with him that might allow for something to happen because you let your guard down with him (i.e., don't go out for drinks with the guy, do take someone else to lunch with you if you go out together, don't sit in a car or other closed place talkign about stuff, don't stay at the office with him after hours whenother people aren't around). By the way, if he's this desirable to other women in your office, then he might be a little too used to the attention and the control it gives him (and he might even be a regular cheater given that he already seems to have been maneuvering to get close to you -- don't get sucked in). Finally, I would not tell your husband -- it would hurt him now and continue to haunt him. Try to concentrate all of your sexual energy in his direction instead and hopefully this other thing will wither on the vine.

Answer 3

Sex + Coworker = Career Suicide. The last thing you want is for everyone to see any difference in the dynamic and body language between the two of you. All this will filter back to her husband... and to your wife! And if anything goes wrong with this fling, she can make sure you never work in this town/county/state again! (Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned...) At the very least, you'll get the Convair kiss-off: piping-hot vending-machine coffee on your lap in front of your coworkers during break. You can survive that with a horseplay writeup if the management is dense or discreet enough not the escalate your peccadillo to a scandal. Take your saltpeter, a leave of absence, and seek work elsewhere.

Answer 4

DO NOT DO IT!!! First, she is married. This can only hurt every one involved even if no one ever finds out about it. Marriage is not only physical it is spiritual! The damage done to you alone will be huge. I am guessing she is older than you. If you do this you will become a little more jaded and a little more bitter day by day. I speak from experience. I will not mess with married women ever again, it is too costly.

Answer 5

Beings she is married think about it real hard before you act on your feelings. Think of the problems it could cause for her and you. Will it affect your work situation. You may open a big can of worms.

Answer 6

That's up to you. Just remember that being a homewrecker DOES carry a stigma. And be prepared for the complications that follow.

Answer 7

I think you should go for what you really want. Now don't send any hit men after him or she can ask for a divorce if she doesn't love him.

Answer 8

realize that it's not gonna work out. You guys "COULD" have your deal, but he's not leaving his wife. And if she ever found out it would just ruin his marriage. Do whatever you want just beware the consequences.

Answer 9

i think u shud follow what ur head and heart says..if you want to fool around and have that kinda [ adulty ] relationship then go right ahead

Answer 10

RUN THE OTHER WAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN....NOTHING GOOD WILL EVER COME FROM THIS AND YOU MIGHT END UP WITHOUT A JOB.....THERE'S PLENTY OF SINGLE WOMEN OUT THERE WHO ARE AVAILABLE. ''THE GRASS IS NEVER GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE "ITS JUST AN ILLUSION......

Answer 11

ok if you want her get her, but also know this. how would you feel if your spouse is leaving you for someone else? What goes around comes around