ive had a big crush on a girl and i want 2 ask her out
2006-07-04 09:51:42 · 11 answers · asked by Dalek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find out what sort of things she likes, movie music food etc and see if she's interested in doing one of those.
being asked to a gig or movie's always good but this also depends on your age, her parents wouldn't let her go to a festival with a strange bloke and his mates. food is always good, rent a wicked movie and get some food in.
basicaly just brush your teeth get the gunk out your nails and have a bath (there's nothing worse when being asked for a date to have them breath morning mouth on you, clean is good but not much, or too much scent and you don't want to be in the same room for too long), wander up to her and start a conversation about what she's in to. see if you have anything in common, say you both love this particular band or movie that's comming out and ask her if she'd fancy wandering over to the cinima with you. i know it sounds cheesy but if she's interested it'll work.
it also helps if you get on with her mates or if she gets on with yours.
the only thing to remember is everyones tasts are different, just because i love my lovely hugable tall biker and think sports wear is a turn of especialy if they obviously go to the hairdresser once a week and get pedacures doesn't mean the next womans opinion will be the same. there is no right way to be or right thing to wear, just be you, and if she doesn't respond then maybe she's not for you, but if she does then have a fun time :)
2006-07-04 10:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by elf 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your really really good mates with this girl then don't ask her out unless you realy think it's gonna work or won't ruin your friendship. It probably won't anyway as it has never ruined my friendship with a guy before.
Best bets are that she likes you to if you have liked her for a while, at the end of the day you to say to yourself "what have I got to loose?" and your answer should be nothing. Don't worried about what she'll say, you never know this could be the best thing you have ever done in your life?
Just go for it!!! xx Good Luck xx alana_440@yahoo.co.uk if you want to ask anything else, kk.
2006-07-04 16:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by HoneyBadger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont put her on the spot and DONT use a chat up line...bring it up in a proper conversation, with just you two there. A boy asked me out in front of a crowd of people before and it was HUMILIATING!
i reckon the best chance would be while you are chatting you bring it up that you like her and have done for a while and you think ou two would have a well good time together!...play it by ear
if she seems to be going along with it go for it...if shes kinda pullin away and hesitant think more carefully
2006-07-04 16:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ya , This question is Simple . I know its going to be hard mate as your young, But please listen to me, I was in this situation at school also , You know what girls really like ? Confident people, If you like this girl have the guts to tell her and ask her if shes wants to meet up with you one weekend and take her to the Cinema :) its as easy as that , If you don't then your never know !
2006-07-04 16:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok u want advice well i prefer the direct aproach but wut realy helps is being nice and write poems or u can start by trying to become friends with her the wen ur ready tell her,but NEVER EVER ask someone to tell her for u.and to ask her out get info on wuts her fav place to eat and stuff then ask her if she wants to go out and if u get turned down it doesnt make a difference.or just go up to her and say"i have a crush on u becaase(ur reason here) so do u want to go out or sometin"
2006-07-04 16:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by iggy_mccute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her lots of compliments and she'll soon get the hint - she just may make the move on you!
2006-07-04 17:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by minxgiggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk straight up to her and ask,strike while you can dont let it rest to another day,believe me i have done that for 5 years - GO FOR IT .
2006-07-04 17:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by silverstoneluckyblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be such a whimp dude walk up to her and say,"Hey you want to go out with me sometime.
2006-07-04 16:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMUNICATE
TALK
SPEAK TO HER
INTRODUCE YOURSELF!!!
Don't be put off by embarrassment, just grow some, walk upto her and ask her on a date...
You'll get one of three answers:
Sure: YAY!!!
No: BOO!!!
Let me get back to you: SHE NEEDS TO DISCUSS YOU WITH HER FRIENDS!!! ;)
2006-07-04 16:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to goto dinner or a movie or a sports game, etc....
2006-07-04 16:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by H2O POLO BOY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋