well i really love my ex but i want him back but he dumped me cuz of lies but yet he wants me to still come over to his house for the weekend what do i do?
2006-07-04 09:46:49 · 17 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i really love my ex but i want him back but he dumped me cuz of lies but yet he wants me to still come over to his house for the weekend what do i do?
the lies r what he was told i never cheated on him or did anything behind his back
2006-07-04 09:53:52 · update #1
the lies r what he was told i never cheated on him or did anything behind his back
2006-07-04 09:54:05 · update #2
go to his house and try to work things out
2006-07-04 09:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You only want him back now because you are in the heat of the painful loss of a breakup.
Your best bet at this time is to stay away from him. Don't call, don't text, don't IM, don't email and definitely don't see him.
You broke up for a reason and if you don't let go and move on, you will just get hurt over and over again.
Move on down the road.
Yeah, you'll hurt for a few weeks, but then you'll be fine and ready to find someone that IS the right person.
2006-07-04 16:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still wants you to come over to his house this weekend, he probably wants to have a heart-to-heart with you. Tell him you're sorry and tell him why you lied if it was for a good reason. It sounds like he still cares about you.
2006-07-04 16:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by cool arrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are telling us that you really have no choice in town but him.
You are telling us you cannot move on and find someone else.
If you go over - you become a throwaway commodity - used, conquered, and dumped.
Find yourself first. What do you want?
Find a friend next. Learn from each other.
Find a network next. Learn to expand your social life.
Find your right person. Learn to live.
2006-07-04 16:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my bf broke up and i really liked him! I was completely heart broken.. And i still really like him
The best thing you could to is FACE to FACE talk to your ex and apologize for your lies. Then you should really stop lying. Usually people lie to save them from pain or consequences but see when you lied it only brought you what you were trying to avoid.
The are always second chances.
2006-07-04 16:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by taliofcali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a couple days for both of you to cool off and think things through. If you still feel the same way as you do now and he hasn't tried to talk to you, than go get him girl!
2006-07-04 16:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thought u cheated? Move on! I'm not saying right now sorta, it won't be easy, but it's time. Give it time. Ur in recent mode only.
2006-07-04 16:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either break it off or not. If he comes over for the weekend it's for sex at his convenience ... "together" but not TOGETHER. Are you willing to settle for this?
2006-07-04 16:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a heart to heart with him. Clearly he still wants to see you.
Good Luck!
2006-07-04 16:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't sit around depressed move on the quickest way to get over someone is to move on
2006-07-04 16:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by tomi b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋