we were together for 6 months, and we haven't spoken much since she broke up with me (which was in march). i want to support her but i'm not sure if it would be helpful if i went? maybe it would make her feel worse. i don't know.
2006-07-04 09:43:24 · 41 answers · asked by CSG 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I think it would be a really good idea to go. It will show your ex that you are thinking about her feelings through such a horrible time. As for making her feel worse, I'd imagine the last thing on her mind right now is your relationship. It may seem a bit daunting for you, but she will really appreciate the fact that you'd cared enough go.
2006-07-04 09:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-30 07:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had a good relationship with her mother u should definatly go and ur the only one that really knows the situation and how and why you guys broke up. maybe u being there would make her feel better or make things worse, call her and tell her ur sorry for what happened and if there is anyting you can help her with, and if she would mind if you went to the funeral, but just don't go with another girl that would be sad :( good luck
2006-07-05 07:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is not a good idea to go to the funeral. You said that you haven't seen her in a while. If you feel you must do something and you meet the parents, then send a note or card to her father and express your sympathy. I know that she would appreciate your thoughtfulness.
2006-07-04 10:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on how the relationship ended. If it was bad and she said she didn't want to talk to you or be around you or something along those lines than no, don't go. However, if you were the one doing the breaking up and hurt her than maybe you should go but if I were you I would call and ask her first if she would be okay with it.
2006-07-04 10:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew her Mom and out of respect want to go,then go. But realize that she is dealing with a major hurt and while later might apprciate your showing up,she probably won"t right then.
It might be a nice gesture if you sent some flowers from your entire family.
2006-07-04 09:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's the thing i've been getting through to guys...ex-gfs are a thing of the past. being involved with them at any point isn't cool. move on and let her completely go. and stay away from the funeral....whether she wants you there or not (which doesn't sound like she does)...it's not healthy for either of you.
2006-07-04 12:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if her mom liked u then go if she broke up with u i wouldnt go it would make her feel worse and put more stress on her but if u want 2 support her then go y not?
2006-07-04 09:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew her, and she was a good person to you, I would to show my last repects you know. It might bother your ex a little but I know I wouldn't be bothered cuz I'd actually respect you more for bein there. Hope it turns out well 4 ya. Peace.
2006-07-04 09:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by green123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would help her get through the tough time if you went. She'll know that you still care about her and maybe you two could start talking again.
2006-07-04 09:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by cool arrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋