Honestly, I dont know why we women chose "bad men". However I do not believe it is always conscience. I think deep down we all want a great man we just dont want them to be boring. It is like the quote from Ferris Buellers day off.. "you cant respect someone who kisses your ***". Please lead the way to a funny, smart, non-*** kisser that treats me fantastically..
2006-07-04 09:37:56 · 17 answers · asked by despondent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not why do women choose bad men, it should be WHY are some men bad... When some women step into these so called "bad" relationships with men whether its abusive or not,you have to think it wasn't always like that. They played a game just as ALL ppl do that date, they made it seem they were a "good" man and the sweetest things ever. Its not till the women gets comfortable and begins a serious relationship with these men that the truth comes and little by little the "bad" comes out. By the time that has happened some women are so scared because of the mental abuse and physical abuse that they don't know where to go. Till you are in that same situation you cant judge, just support. Its alot easier to say "just leave" when in reality its not. Every situation is different and the reasons why they are the way they are. Just be thankful your not there and hope the others find a way out.
2006-07-04 09:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by ToYsTeMpTer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still believe that there is a reason for everything...whether we see what it is or not. Maybe we have to go through these kinds of things to become the people we were meant to be. And I guess it follows that these 'bad boys' have to be left by so many good women so that they too can become the people they were meant to be....but there's always a choice...always free will. Whether we learn from our mistakes or not is completely up to us.
2006-07-04 16:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself to begin with. If there are doubts about anything than it is obvious that person is not right for you. I found my True Love gabbing on yahoo one night. I would still be with him to this day if some jerk was not raising hell on a snowmobile and killed him. First step is to be totally honest about what you want no matter what it is. Happiness may take time.. just live life to the fullest.
2006-07-04 16:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, it's a work in progress, your life. There are quite a few of us who fall into the non-boring category, but the younger we are, the less we have learned about "curbing our enthusiasm", as it were. I would suggest, whatever age you may be, and I suspect you are in your early 20's, that you multiply your age by 1.1-1.2 and the age of the man would be ideal. It's no shame accepting or being accepted as " damaged goods ". Sincerely, UC Steve.
2006-07-04 16:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by UCSteve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beh. I think there's an asshole in every single guy. Some appear fun and nice at first more than others, while some are shy and laid back, hard to meet. No matter what one you manage to grasp, considering you should give them all a chance if they're at least fun to talk to and attractive to you, in the end, they all will piss you off.
2006-07-04 16:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are jerks and have one thing on their mind when it comes to women. So the sooner you realize that, that statement is true. You can look past that and find a man that respects you.
2006-07-04 16:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why men choose beautiful wimen that are NOT smart, funny or even rich???
Because attraction is not based on logic. It just comes from somewhere.. Like a raibow :))))))))))))
2006-07-04 16:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by Acider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is not a choice, you like the fact that you can't change them as much you want to.
Find a good guy who understands this, you'll be ok.
2006-07-04 16:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we always think we can change them, and yes deep down we all want good man, but I think we're afraid.
2006-07-04 16:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Girl in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really hard. there are so many jerks out there that seem nice/ok when you first meet them. then you get to know them and they are a$$holes!!! just try and get to know people before you start a relationship with them.
2006-07-04 16:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by tinkbostwick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋