My husband just told me that we are going out tonight with his friend and his friend's girlfriend. I don't mind going with the guys but the girlfriend freaks me out. She is always getting way too close to me and asking strange questions about things that I like or don't like. She hasn't come right out and made any sexual remarks exactly, but she is always trying to hug on me or hang on me. If we knew each other well I wouldn't be freaked out, but I have only met her three times for less than 10 min. each time. This behavior from her started the second time I met her. I am not into women and if she were totally forward about it I would have no problem with telling her to back off...but in case I am reading too much into it I don't want to be rude. YIKES...What is a girl to do? My husband knows that I am not comfortable with her but I don't think he realizes how much she gives me the creeps. Any advice?
2006-07-04 09:34:57 · 12 answers · asked by Pamela 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If your not interested in a lesbian experience,my advice is to think like this. Many women are not comfortable when they are dealing with women friends who are not of their own choosing. You and her are sort of thrown together by circumstances.
Try to find a common ground with her. Something you both like. (nonsexual) It may not be her coming on to you so much as its her just trying to be likeable.
2006-07-04 09:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is nothing wrong with expressing yourself. there is a way to say what you feel. One example would be to give a noticable movement away from her when she starts to get too close. If she should ask why this happened, you have an opportunity to let her know that she is WAY too close. Good Luck.
2006-07-04 09:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by dcg42bowler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time your out with her go to the bathroom with her and push her into a stall, preferably the habndicap(they hav a little more room) and go down on her right then and there.
show her you are not afraid to get nasty with a girl, and any ways you will be able to satisfy her better than most guys.
If she freaks out and is all defensive, still just push her into the stall and beat the ***** down.
A couple good heavy hits and she will know you are a tough chick!
2006-07-04 09:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by grunt_smacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she is bisexual, or needs a woman to socially cling to whenever she is out with her guy. Either way, if she goes to hug you, politely put a stop to it, and, if necessary, say, "Sorry, but I am somewhat of a more reserved person." If that doesn't work, then maybe your husband needs to have a talk with his friend about it.
2006-07-04 09:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab him via the collar, push him against the wall and make a threat that if he messes with ur lady, it may be the final element he will remember. Oh i could be this style of toughie if i replaced right into a guy....
2016-11-01 05:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuuu maybe she hasnt realized shes being like that. i do know wot u mean though. i have a friend that is sooo touchy feely it gets on my nerves. i mean i am aswell but iu just hate her! LOL
hey just like dont react to it and like just be like straight and she might stop.
she might just be trying to be nice.... u never know
or she might be very atracted to u! LOL
2006-07-04 11:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simulate coughing and get three steps back from her.
Excuse yourself and tell her that YOU PREFER TO KEEP THE DISTANCE not to give her the virus!!
Maybe she will get the message!
2006-07-04 09:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by Alexandra I 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could be you....Seriously, just stop seeing her in any way. Do not give her false hopes or the wrong impression.. Keep away..
2006-07-04 09:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think she is a bad person, she might be looking for a friend to be socially with, and may be she doesnt have any friends, well dont pretend that you like her and also dont show openly that you dont.
2006-07-04 09:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you have lice or leperosy always works for me when i dont want someone touching me
2006-07-04 09:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by enviroman2222 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋