I am a church girl. Grew up in church all my life. In my early 20s, I was going through a real tough time in my life and I strayed away from God and got involved with someone who was not saved. I am going back to church now and so far there is nothing I haven't done to get my ex to stop calling me. I went as far as changing my phone number and he got it. Honestly, the only thing left is for me to call the cops and have him arrested for stalking. Do you think this is something spiritual?
2006-07-04 09:21:49 · 18 answers · asked by Lady Mandeville 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
it's possible. If you two were sexual. The reason the bible holds sex in such a restrained content as marriage is because it's not only the pleasure the flesh experiences. God's word says it joins the two people and they become one. It affects your spirit. If sex wasnt a part of your relationship then the man may just have some really serious possesion issues. I'd pray that God protect you against him. Tell him he is no longer welcomed to call you, i'm figuring you've done that already, if he persist. Then yes take legal action and go to the police. Let someone you trust know what' going on to dont hide it.
2006-07-04 09:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by glowchild7 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i'll say this one word: struggles. life, you may know already, was once perfect but then Man messed up life and sin had come into practice. straying from God is something that most Christians do, it's an undeniable fact and regrettably it happens. that person that you got involved with when you strayed is ... if i may say this without being offensive, is just a tad bit obsessed, just a tad. you may hate me for saying this but pray not for him to change but for you because for some reason or another God only changes those who truly believe in him. God probably won't change your stalker-ex. pray for your ex but don't count on things getting better, if anything expect both the good and the bad.
maybe God keeps having your ex creepily stalk you because you are his only way of knowing Christ and having a fulfilling relationship with him. i won't even try to mention the bad because i don't want that to happen. this could be spiritual ... but you know, to be perfectly honest, you might to pray to God about this, not ask a mere mortal ... we may some right answers but that doesn't mean these answers are the best. ask God, he'll help you some way or another
2006-07-04 09:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by tinerr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure Do!....GOD'S Word Warns us about Strongholds!.....The first thing you should do is pray in the Spirit (Romans 8: 26).....the next thing you should do is remind yourself of what GOD says in ( 2 Cor. 10: 4-5)....If you are a Born Again Believer Then You Can Use the Weapons Of Spiritual Warfare!.......And Yes, Call The Cops If You Need To!......
2006-07-04 09:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, just because you are spiritual does not mean you do not like sex. My husband can tell a dirty joke and be a little flirtatious and I am never mad about it. Noone has the right to email solicitations to strangers. The metaphorical or rhetorical is not the literal. Literal expectations of him having sex is not the same thing as having a sense of humour. We are a little crass, I know. Can't help it, we grew up on the Prairies. We try to be polite but it is our fault sometimes, esp after whiskey or too much wine. Thanks, Michelle Cotterall
2006-07-05 16:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's something psychotic. Get a restraining or a protective order from your county courthouse. Religion has nothing to do with this. Not every person who isn't a Christian is a psychopath, you just unfortunately got yourself involved with one that is. There's no reason why your ex should be harassing you like that and there are laws against stalking.
2006-07-04 09:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Manders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is something spiritual and you're the one at fault. Jesus said that whoever God has joined, man (as in male/female) is not to separate. Check out 1st Corinthians 7:10 and 11, also. I think you should go back, apologize, and stay with him. Obviously, I'm assuming you're both married and to each other. I'm telling Daddy on you...!
2006-07-04 09:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe in spiritual strongholds and the truth is that now you are making your way back to God, the devil has to fight for you all over again. Your life is going to become more difficult than it was when you were back in the world. The devil knows that you were 'weak' for this person and is using him to get you back in his grasp.
Put the entire situation and that person in the hands of the Lord. 'If he brings you to it, he will bring you through it!!'
P.S. Please inform the police as well. God has put them here for a measure of his protection over us.
2006-07-04 09:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is spirtiual. I beleive God protects us from evil and is a loving God.
Your ex is living by his own free will and has not turned that over to God. This could make him dangerous and mean. Take care of yourself, allow God to take care of you.... but this man is living outside the will of God and you may need help in this situation.
2006-07-04 09:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by pammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he nice does he treats you right If he is nice and treats you right then show the path that God has shown you. If you did to talk to someone my email is mattthreesixteen @ yahoo.com
P.S. I to go to church all my life and I am 29 years old
2006-07-04 09:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by mattthreesixteen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only that the devil is using this guy to torture you I would keep praying for God to deliver the guy from your presence and ask the lord to put a protective sheild around you and prtect you from all evil. If you believe it wiil happen. and call on the elders of the church to pray for you.
2006-07-04 09:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋