Recently, I dated with a man who is 18 years older than me(46). at first we were realy happy but after 1 month he said, you should marry with a boy in your same age and have family and baby. this relation is not good for you.and you should marry but i realy love him and i dont like he leave me, How can i convince him to continue? by the way, what is true love?Is it realy bad for me?
2006-07-04 09:18:21 · 9 answers · asked by judy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You think he's doing it for you ... or has he tired of you? It happens. Get to the real reason than confront it. Everyone doesn't need to make babies ... cramus we got enough. Get a dog.
2006-07-04 09:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while you're fending off to college, you ought to take that under consideration. long distance relationships are fairly puzzling besides, even without hefty age hollow. in case you confirm to bypass in this dating then you certainly will come across a reasonably decent inventory of skill suitors in school. a lot of those skill suitors could have greater in straight forward with you than maximum 30-12 months-olds do. in case you do not bypass in this dating then you certainly will discover it merely approximately impossible to last truthful. additionally undergo in concepts that there is, ordinarily, a *extensive* adulthood hollow between an 18 12 months old and a man or woman who's even in user-friendly terms some years older. Even a 4 12 months age hollow could make a actual distinction at that youthful age, so think of what a 12 12 months distinction reasons. some thing like that's formally laid out interior the "a million/2 Your Age Plus Seven" rule. The formulation is youthful >= older / 2 + 7. For you the rule of thumb works out to (18-7)*2 <= 22, decrease than 30 years old. There are some effectual relationships that fall outdoors of that variety, yet risk isn't working on your prefer. individually, i opt to propose passing in this dating. you're 18. you are able to discover the money for to attend and and not take a extreme danger gamble on a dating with this guy. there is not any actual reason to opt to a dating it fairly is very in all hazard to end badly.
2016-12-08 15:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by riveria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this man realizes he has made a mistake for his own life and yours. He is 100% right. Find a boy in your age group and have a normal family. It is said that every woman falls in love 3 times in her life-time. You can move on. True love is on it's way.
2006-07-04 09:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love- id say its not about the age, its about what you think of him, its not about good looks *which i love hehehehehehe* its about what you guys have in comon. It doesnt matter about what kind of money or the amount of money it means how you guys are nonsperateable.
Just because he is way older than you and you know he is the right guy then you should say what you think defines true love. If u love him that much then you should tell him that. Wellz Good Luck!!!
2006-07-04 09:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age has nothing to do with nothing !
When in was 20 I dated women in thier 40,s
all the time,yeah I fell in love,but she was only
interested in me as a companion,no sex-no love
good intelligent conversation,and companionship.
it broke my heart,she was a godess,she moved away to marry a man that was 10 yrs older than she was.?who knew !!!!!
but I had lots of other relationships with woman that were 20
or more years older than I was
No the key thing is that is has to be mutual,
on both sides,if your happy and he is not--forget it !
it will not work, and if he is happy and your not ,---the same thing,
we cannot make something out of nothing !
it has to be a mutual relationship and understanding !
and if it;s not , it;s not worth persuing.
good luck !
2006-07-04 09:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking what is true love .. and he is telling you to find someone else.. I suggest you find someone else.. you are young and are going to want a lot of things he does not sound he wants to provide such as a family
2006-07-04 09:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by gentleman1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking out for you. Which could mean he loves you too. Let him know how you feel and if he insist this is the way it should be then you have to respect his feelings.
2006-07-04 09:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by asitcomes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try dating within your age group and if it doesn't work let him know maybe he will re think it!!
best wishes
2006-07-04 09:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by half insane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk make him jealous,make him feel wat he missed out on
2006-07-04 09:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by eazybreezy103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋