exercise good timing using observation. do ask when its clear that its appropiate cause if her mindset or mood is off chances are she might not pay as much attention to your feelings as to whats going on in her head. you could politely ask her for a moment to talk, then tell her what it is that's causing the attraction. give her a reason to hear you out... (keep it short) and why you don't want to miss out on the opportunity to at learn and grow with some one who can make you happy... (let the conversation flow casually,dont dominate just dialogue,dont use pressure/aggression, rely or build on your confidence)
then SUGGEST a time and place that's convenient (some place in the open that's neither too distracting or noisy) where you can both relax and get to know (understand) each other on what ever level. 1st impression is important but not always lasting or accurate THE KEY IS TO STAY CALM, COOL & IN CONTROL
of yourself and you'll be blessed.
2006-07-04 10:37:50
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answered by lordscu 1
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Firs of all, you have to be humble, don't be too forward when introducing yourself, you don't want to intimidate her, and second, be yourself and take a deep breath and go for it. Tell your name first and ask her name. After she tells her name, ask if that's what her friends call her, if she has a nick name, call her by that name and greet her back with a friendly statement, for example, "its a pleasure to meet you." Tell her what brought your attention to pursue her. And then ask if she would like to spend time with you. If she rejects whatever offer you gave her, be a gentleman about it and tell her politely. The # one rule is, ALWAYS be respectful no matter what the outcome may be. Sometimes girls will test us guys, and we have to show them that we're genuine and we're serious about them. Goodluck.
2006-07-04 09:47:31
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answered by romeo4evernever 2
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okay, what ever you do don't ever apologize for wanting to take her out, as in would you mind going out with me??
No, no, no...what ever your interest are just invite her along. for example:
Hey, I've got two tickets to (whatever), my friend (female friend) just canceled at the last minute would you be interested?
Or my personal favorite; I'm going to Ikea to do some shopping care to tag along? Then have a blast just tooling around Ikea, make fun of her etc.
2006-07-04 09:22:17
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answered by adrian_biccum 3
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walk up and ask her...be forward and to the point. By the way this is the point when humility goes out the window and yes life suck so be prepared for a "NO" every now and then....Also be realistic...stay within your league dude.
2006-07-04 09:18:47
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answered by Mr. Wizard 2
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the best way to ask a girl out is to say im really interested in you do you mind if i take you out on a date
2006-07-04 09:18:01
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answered by sexyladyindahouse 1
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there are a few ways that work, but the best way is probably as romantic as you can get it.
just asking "will you go out with me" works too you know.
2006-07-04 09:18:04
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are nervous to ask a girl out I would ask one of the girl you like's friends to ask her if she likes you. If she likes you then just come right out and ask her or ask one of your friends to ask her. If she does not like you maybe its time to move on
2006-07-04 09:20:12
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answered by ChelseyChiller 2
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sober, and with a resonable amount of clothing on usually helps(if face to face). If on the phone-sober still seems to be the way to go.
2006-07-04 09:22:29
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answered by Northy 3
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i would say the original chocolate and roses or maybe a straght-up ask and answer or a old-school note with the do you like me and a yes and no box
2006-07-04 09:19:39
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answered by sweet 2
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I agree...send her unexpected flowers with a note asking her out. If she says no, she's not worth your time anyway. Every girl loves flowers.
2006-07-04 09:18:28
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answered by Heather 2
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