2006-07-04 09:07:58 · 23 answers · asked by tall_sweet_women 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hey you should say its just gods way of saying hes happy and he wants you to be happy to he dont want to scar you he just loves you.it always works for me !
2006-07-04 09:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by HAILEY S 2 · 10⤊ 2⤋
Some children are afraid of a lot of things that they don't understand no matter how you explain sometimes it takes time for them to grow out of it some kids are not afraid of loud noises and some kids are it is NORMAL I have 3 so believe me I have been through it but it takes a little time be patient and your 4 year old will grow out of it I know that they are missing out on the fireworks but right now they don't think so if they are afaid don't force them it is only going to make them more afraid next year it will get better but be prepared for a slight or small or big change it depends on the child they might love it next year or still be afraid you can talk about it with them and let them see on tv or anyway you can to help them not be afaid next time
2006-07-04 09:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some form of hearing protection. Muffle the sound, and your child should be able to enjoy the visual without being terrified of the audio.
Lots of people - myself included - get super-jumpy around sudden explosions, random gunshots, etc. (Driving last night was impossible.)
Paranoid moment: It's possible your child may have autism, however, this is a more extreme rationale than simply being scared of ridiculously loud, random noise.
2006-07-04 09:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by kx_wx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could watch fireworks on TV with him and try to explain that the noise is what makes it go up into the air. If he continues to be afraid of them in person, don't force him. Time and maturity will probably work it out.
2006-07-04 09:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by junielu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My neice was like that at first. I simply put her in my lap and started with sparklers until she wanted one of her own and it just grew from there. By the end of the night she wanted fire works every night and has loved them every since. I think they just need to know that nothing is going to happen, that it's just light and noise... mostly noise.
2006-07-04 09:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by stepmomster22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't subject your child to such a bad thing? If your child doesn't like it, then wait. Maybe your child has a hearing problem and it hurts. Our children are precious and special and should be treated so. I know you want your child to enjoy all the things you do, but it doesn't always happen that way. This could be a traumaitc experience that could harm your child for life.
2006-07-04 09:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the tenderheart AWAY to somewhere quiet.
Who says a kid has to like loud sharp boistrous sounds. Later, maybe by 5,6, or 7 you can get to the bottom of it. Don't let the child lose trust in YOU by forcing it.
2006-07-04 09:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of this is very stepped forward for a 4 year previous. i do no longer see any harm in it presented he's having exciting. it is common for 4 year olds to be sure. (word that I mentioned regular, no longer predicted or ordinary).
2016-11-01 05:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is just let them gragally get use to the sound of the fire works. its like the same consept with dogs. you have to give it time to get use to the noices. once youve surpased that, then take them to seee the real fire works. what im saying in all is to use like recordings of the sound and let them get used to the noice. thats the mane cause of the child being so scared.
2006-07-04 09:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by wolfmistresskiba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be over today..
My little ones are the same way. They don't like it because they are small and the noise is scary. We can't blame them. Just show them it's ok by keeping them close for security.
2006-07-04 09:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your child will grow out of it. Give him or her earplugs or large head-phones to mask the sound. The decibel level of fireworks is louder than legal for children that age. It's every parent's responsibility to look out for your child's hearing.
2006-07-04 09:10:54 · answer #11 · answered by NVgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋