Is this lust or love? Should i forget him?

Question

Well, Theres this boy in my skool but the thing is i really do feel something for him and have for about 6 months non-stop. He knows how i feel but he doesnt feel nothing back, Even though i said i really felt something to him to his face but he just looked at me and said thats sweet n hugged me and said bye!
Even though i have really felt something for him for ages i dont know if its lust or love and if i should try and forget about him even thought these feelings are meant to be there?
Please help me....?

Answer 1

When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!

Answer 2

Trust me, these are by far the first feelings like these that you will have for another boy. Since he does not return your feelings; please don't waste your time nor emotions on him. Love is there and meant to be when both sided share it

Answer 3

since he doesnt return ur feeling u should just leave him alone.

Answer 4

it's lust,ditch him