2006-07-04 08:58:14 · 30 answers · asked by omg 1 in Dining Out ➔ United States ➔ Philadelphia
I always find the phase "steal a man" to be funny. Men aren't hotel ashtrays that can be slipped into a pocket! Your boyfriend wanted to go with your best friend. She didn't steal anything unless she actually drugged him and put him into a sack.
As to what to do.... I would find a more committed boyfriend. As to your friend, that is up to you. Can you bear to see them together? If no, then you will need a new best friend also.
But remember if he is this type of person, he is likely to be "stolen" again. Then, you can both have a good laugh at yourselves for wanting him in the first place.
2006-07-04 09:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by momma dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she stole him, then he never was yours in the first place, and he really didn't love or like you. You are special; we are all, so you deserve someone special. And she couldn't have been your best friend if she got your boyfriend. You are better off. Believe me. So F him and get you someone special and better then him. YOU will find someone. But first get him out of your system because he's not worth it neither is she. Good Luck.
2006-07-04 09:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Reesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is let them go and never forget how they betrayed you. No revenge is necessary - they have each other for that. You are the better person and take the high road by moving on and putting them in your past.
2006-07-04 09:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably stole your boyfriend because she was jealous of you and had to prove to herself that she was better than you , as for him, he was probably flattered by the attention and took what she had on offer thinking he was the man to be getting attention from two girls. in the end they will end up as people who never really wanted each other in the first place and most likely miserable. usually they will both end up coming back to you for something and wanting foregiveness. it is up to you to decide if they are worth your energy. i would find a friend that loves you more than her ego,and a boyfriend who does the same. and let the two others wallow in thier own insecurities
2006-07-04 12:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by tracy n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she no good friend if she capable of this and ya boyfriend cant love u either if this is how he treats u,after all ya best friend knew you had bf and shouldn't have done that,thats the lowest of the lows and ya bf should have said no. you want a bf you can trust as with ur friends,i wouldnt wanna know either of them any more, i wish you well in finding a honest guy and choose ya friends more wisely.
2006-07-04 09:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by shaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a new best friend and a new boyfriend or two.
2006-07-05 03:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of both for ever. You can not trust either one ever no mater what they say! They were not your friends to begin with, real friends would never do that. I would just move on they deserve each other. They will cheat on each other for sure. So you can sit back and lol when that happens. You deserve better!
2006-07-04 09:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was steal-able, was he really your boyfriend. Be thankful for the lesson, and look for someone who understands loyalty and commitment.
2006-07-06 06:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends do not get stolen if they don't want to. Your friend is a snake and your guy is not worth another wink. Move on, get BETTER friends, and kiss those losers goodbye.
2006-07-04 09:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wite yor boyfriend a long and letter and end your friendship with your friend becauz she did nnot have to do to u she had the nerve 2 do it ditch em both
2006-07-04 09:02:22 · answer #10 · answered by Maddie Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋