Me and my bf are both in our 20's and want to wait until we are married to have sex. We have both been with other people in the past. How can we make the waiting process easier?
2006-07-04 08:54:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not asking if I SHOULD wait. I really don't care if you think I should or not. :) No offense.
2006-07-04 09:08:45 · update #1
i am in the same situation. my boyfriend and i remind ourselves that our sex could be meaningless if we do not stay together for the rest of our lives. i like to think about how amazing our wedding night will be if we wait and how meaningless it could be if we had sex right now. i wish you the best of luck and hope you have a strong will.
2006-07-04 09:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by paparazzichelle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe that you have to be married to have sex or it's meaningless. I think if you're in love with someone that's in love with you, it's very worthwhile and meaningful. However, if you are sure you want to wait until you're married it will not be easy. It's never easy to wait, especially when you're in love but there are other things you can do (as I'm sure you know) and avoid being in situations where it will be difficult to say no. Temptation's a b*tch. ;)
2006-07-04 09:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got the right idea. In order to resist temptations you'll need help. Like from above. With God all things are possible. Do your best to not get into too passionate situations. Stay in public places. Limit the physical contact, etc. If you know you're right for each other, just get married already!
2006-07-04 09:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by Matt B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to make it easier if u to really love each other u guys will have no problem waiting
2006-07-04 09:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u people still want wait 4.Having Sex b4 married is normal.Now already 2006 not 1006.Maybe he kid u off one if u refuse to have sex with him.
2006-07-04 09:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Die
2017-02-20 13:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Luke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont be easy if you're extremely attracted to each other.Dont put yourselves in any position where you may have to give in to your heat. Set ground rules but try to have fun doing OTHER things.
2006-07-04 09:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand,
Why you both want to wait,
To make love to each other ,
When you both aren't virgins,
And been with others!
Once you loose your virginity,
Sweety no matter how long you wait,
Its isn't coming back!
Go Please your man, and yourself ~ !
~*~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-07-04 09:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait it out. there will be times it will be hard but YOU will know how to deal with it
2006-07-04 09:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by stephenbroncosfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it
Its not natural to not
2006-07-04 08:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋