Im 42 he's 22 and it was about a year of just flirting. Now, after sleeping with him twice, he ended it, and now won't speak to me.
2006-07-04 08:32:21 · 18 answers · asked by peewee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep...it's over.
2006-07-04 08:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel and what you're going through... I am 48 years old and had an affair with a guy who was 32 years old. It was the same way for us...flirting for about a year and little gestures of affection here and there. We slept together three times within the six months of seriously being together. He never really ended our relationship, he just stopped calling and became very distant. I wrote him a letter, but got no response. As I'm told, no response is a response... It's been five months and still I have no closure. I've seen him a few times and he just says hello...no eye contact...no nothing. I have finally realized that with our age difference, we probably would have not worked out. He wanted children...I can't have anymore and his immaturity showed with the way he has handled our relationship. He does deserve someone his own age who can relate to him at his level and hopefully give him the family he dreams of. Give yourself the time to heal and try not to blame yourself for anything. I'm sure like me, you fell in love with him. After everything we've been through, it's hard for me to believe he could end things this way. I know how hard it'll be to get him out of your mind, but slowly his face will fade. I still think of him...not as often, but hold the memories close to my heart. Take care and hang in there!
2006-07-05 13:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes let it go like all affairs it just seems more intense bcuz u have to c him daily that's y when u make a decision to sleep with some1 u have to be aware of all the consequences weather good or bad so in case of which ever u will be ready hun we wonder how can a man sleep with us and dump us and not even give it another thought bcuz its just sex not love ur 42 u cant be looking 4 nething more then sex from an immature 22yr old manchild not that age matters MUCH but it's rare to find 1 ready for life
2006-07-04 08:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by appletini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, let it go. He knew it was all about sex and probably feels a bit embarrassed now. He may even worry that you'll tell the other people at work. Of course you realize when it comes to marriage he will likely be with someone much closer to his age.
He's given you the signal that he doesn't want anymore, so accept that and move on. It was an adventure for both of you and probably when he sees you have let it go, he will become more friendly.
2006-07-04 08:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say this, but maybe you spoiled his fantasy...you should have teased him more...BJs, hand jobs...letting him do things to you, but no sex...not until you saw the response you got from him... I'm sorry this happened to you, he's just not ready to engage in something like that obviously...probably too immature to handle it.
2006-07-04 08:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by 1n51ght 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i'd just let it go. he's young and probably confused. they usually are at that age anyway. just enjoy the memories and keep it cool between you and him. be the bigger person since he's wierded out and obviously not capable of it. by the way......22?? good for you honey!!
2006-07-04 08:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, let it go. he's too young to be able to handle the situation with dignity. he is just a boy.
2006-07-04 08:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a lucky man! But you can flirt with me!
2006-07-04 08:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by John Doe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, let it go and never bring it up again. He may be embarassed.
2006-07-04 08:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by michaelthegreat6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? you probably scared the chit out of him.
2006-07-04 08:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUHHHHHHHHHHHH he got what he wanted you got what you wanted and you both get what you deserve a real head/heartache
2006-07-04 08:42:32 · answer #11 · answered by scott S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋