Girls Help?

Question

I have a friend who is a little overweight and he is neverous about asking a girl out and then he dont know how to go on a date or where please answer these questions
1.where does he go for the first date
2.should u kiss on the first date
3.how should he ask her out
4. he is very nerousand dont want to cause he is scaried of what people would think of him and her

Answer 1

I think that you should encourage your friend and say,"Hey,what's the worse that could happen?" because asking someone out is very hard but once it's over it's over and you can then move on with your life and try to find someone else.So first off, tell him to be cool and confident when first asking this girl out. If it turns out that this girl says yes, then he should suggest maybe just spending time with her outside on their first date and probably take her and offer her icecream or lunch at a casual restaurant.I personally think that most girls like to wait a little bit into the relationship before actually making the first kiss so no to the second. So like I said, the best way to ask someone out is to be confident about it and ask yourself "What's the worse that could happen." I mean yes, there might be some humiliation and embarassment for awhile but that never lasts.goos luck!

Answer 2

First don't be so nervous. For the first date ask her where she would like to go. You don't kiss on the first date unless she kisses you first or do like my husband did kissed me on the hand. Ask her face to face to go out. As for other people thinking about the two of you out on a date it's none of the business. And believe or not some woman or girls likes man who has a little bit of padding (little overweight). Good luck on your first date. And if this one don't work there will be other first dates.

Answer 3

Tell him to quit being scared and ask her out. If he is scared of rejection he will never go anywhere. The girl is either going to say yes or no. If she says no find another girl to ask. If the girl says yes ask her to go for a walk or to visit the park. No you shouldn't put any pressure on her to kiss on the first date. Maybe she will on the second or third. It may even take a little longer. Start out as friends and build your way to what you are looking for. Let her know you are very attracted to her so that it can become more.

Answer 4

I think the first date should just b a hang out day, like, a movie or a walk around town. then after that, make a date. only if you like her. lol. But you (or whoever your talking about)can kiss if you really like her. and he shouldn't be nervuos or nething to ask her out, just call her and say, hey wanna hang out? But this person shouldn't care what other people think, it would make the girl like him if he was confedient, and not so shy and trying to make sure no one would c him, you hav to b the total opposite. ya know what i mean? hope this helps 'yer friend'

Answer 5

tell him its ok to be nervous. everyone is nervous on their first date. u dont hav to kiss on ur first date, only some ppl do that. but everyone is different so thats fine. 4 a first date. i would think the movies is a nice place. ther is no certain way to ask a grl out othr than going up to her and asking her out. he shouldn't care about what other ppl will think. it doesnt matter what they think, itn only matters what he thinks.

Answer 6

somewhere comfortable is where he needs to go. movie and a dinner are played out. on our first date my fiance and i went for iced tea then a walk. I would say no to kissing on the first date. he shouldn't be nervouse if a man is confident it doesn't matter his size

Answer 7

just hang out on the first date
no kissing unless she kisses him
don't worry bout other people