I think I have possibly found the man of my dreams, and I am pretty sure he likes me, too. The only problem is...he's my BOSS! Where I work, no one really tells anyone what to do, and our boss is real laid back so it's not like there are any power issues involved. Plus, this is only a job for me, not a career, as I am only 23, and am a college grad who is going to go back to school to be a therapist next year. What should I do? I really, really care about him, and as it stands, we are already real close friends. Is taking it to the next level going too far?
2006-07-04 08:16:09 · 13 answers · asked by ChiLuvR 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is single, and you are really sure... why not. Then again have some money put aside, and up dated CV and look into how hard it would be to be transfered to an other branch of the company if it fizzels out and you still have to see him nearly everyday.
2006-07-04 08:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
The old adage says, never sleep where you eat. In other words, no sexual relations where you're getting paid. No qualifiers, like I'm going back to school, or only a job. How do you know you aren't only the flavor this month? Keep your mind on the future, after you move on and out of this job, if the feelings are there, go for it. But now, if you are "close" friends every one will speculate and your reputation will be ruined, even if you aren't sleeping your way up. Friends? Stay friends. With privileges? Never!
2006-07-04 08:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by pitmanette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it smart, wait until you are no longer working there. Sometimes things change when you go to the next level and it's not always for the good. It could affect not only you but the way others feel about you that you work with. You don't want to have problems at work so wait, it's not that much longer. THen when school starts back up, then persue this relationship. Good luck with school and with your boss
2006-07-04 08:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by funnyface53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agencies selection on the workplace coverage of relationship. considering the fact which you have already checked the agency coverage instruction manual and have been given the info, then you definately are nicely recommended and can evaluate your self warned. considering the fact which you realize the guideline, which do you fee greater? the aptitude date or having a job extremely? As a supervisor on ANY point, inspite of your potential to hire , hearth or schedule, it is your accountability to be certain all policies and policies are observed. in case you desperate to this factor this guy or woman on a similar time as being employed there, you will tarnish your character, popularity and honor. Even the slightest sinn of fondness between you 2, ought to instruction manual different workers to experience you instruct selection to this guy or woman. there'll continually be a conflict of interest whilst one makes a decision to this factor a fellow worker. Take the severe highway and do what's sweet for you the two. This involvement ought to wind up with you the two dropping your jobs. i'm no longer asserting to no longer be friends. I basically understand that placing boundries will artwork on your benefit later down the line. take care of your artwork background and destiny references. interior the long-term, you need to have made the terrific, mature dicission for your self and your buddy. terrific Regards!
2016-11-01 04:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may face a problem in this relationship bcz he see u as a labor of him ; and he might think that u r dating him to take advantage only not for love.
and defiantly u workmate will hate u .
2006-07-04 08:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by how2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!! You have 2 choices...you can date him and when you piss him off, you can lose your job OR you can quit, date him and save yourself the pain of possibly losing your job. Isn't there someone else out there you can go out with. Please don't take the risk.
2006-07-04 08:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Barb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess if its just a job not a career it wouldn't be so bad. but it will be sour if there is heartbreak
2006-07-04 08:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by rumilb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating your boss is like "Pooping where you eat".
they are two things... best separated.
2006-07-04 08:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both single, and don't mix business in your relationship, it is pretty fine for me....
2006-07-04 08:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good thing ur in college. i thought u were my dads gf! no not at itall. it is perfectly fine.
2006-07-04 08:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by ojndoanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋