we went out in dec to feb then we broke up and now after talking smack about me he wants to go out with me again.
2006-07-04 08:14:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and meaning smack he talked behind my back
2006-07-04 10:19:13 · update #1
Does he value your sense of Trust and your sense of People? Does he have those values of Honesty, Trust, Respect, Caring, Sharing, Appreciation, A Sense of Humor, and Unconditional Love?
If so, then give it another try.
2006-07-04 08:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him, discuss why you two broke up and make certain those things or that one thing that caused the break-up aren't still present...that's the first hurdle.
Next, what proof do you have that he was "talking smack" about you? Word of mouth? If this is a "my friend Jane said her friend heard her friend's cousin who knows a friend of..." well...
Finally, if by going out with you is just a date to the movies or out to dinner (something non-major) and if you want to do this, do it. If you're talking about pulling down the panties...well, that's another subject.
Bottom line is that neither one of you are the only two people on this earth (some may say, Thank God [or their appropriate Higher Power, if there is one for them]) and you may want to remember this in your decision...but it is YOUR decision and I'm sure you'll make the correct one.
2006-07-04 15:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by R C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No second chances, especially if he will talk smack behind your back. What's going to stop him from talking about things you dont want him to? Nothing, if he cared he wouldn't have acted that way.
2006-07-04 15:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by sparrenvoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need the company of somebody who "talks smack" about you? Set your sights higher; you're worth more than that. Seek the company of people who give you the respect you deserve and treat them the same way.
2006-07-04 15:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by junielu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date him, dump him and then talk smack about him
2006-07-04 15:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by dazzle_superstar04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, if it happened once it will happen again. most likely he just broke up with someone else and will do you the honor of coming back to you until the next time he finds someone else. Don't play his game, he isn't worth it. If you are dumped once, don't let him do it again
2006-07-04 15:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by funnyface53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate that. guys do that to my friends all the time. just leave him alone and drop him. every time a girl goes back out with a guy like that it is horrible and they wind up breaking up again. even if you think you still like him leave him alone and get someone else. he doesn't really like you as much as he says he does and even if he does he doesn't deserve you because of the way he has been acting.
2006-07-04 15:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do hope your not even considering going out with this guy again. Your setting yourself up for nothing but pain..again. Just think about this, if he did it once, he'll do it again because he thinks he has you where he wants you. Tell him to go find someone else to sucker into his little web.
2006-07-04 15:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Barb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back out with him. Have some respect for yourself and never let yourself fall to his level. You can be bigger than that and you will find someone better who Actually appreciates you
2006-07-04 15:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it right where it is, done, if it was going to work out it would have the first time, not to mention he demonstrated that he's spiteful and immature by talking crap about you so why bother? spiteful and immature you can find on a 2nd grade playground, who needs that. tell him he had his chance and he blew it. you can do better.
2006-07-04 15:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋